My brother has been... (girls help Me...!!)?!
Question: It happened like about 4days ago... i was trying to fall asleep, i was wearing cami and panties, and then, suddenly my brother entered into my room and squeezed my boobs.. i was so shocked but i didn't want to say out... as i thought it would never occur again..
But just yesterday,he came again, squeeze my boobs and touched my pubic area... Eeeekkk!!!!
What should i do??? I cannot bear to tell my parents.. his my little brother... ='(
By the way, i'm 17 and he is 14..
Answers: It happened like about 4days ago... i was trying to fall asleep, i was wearing cami and panties, and then, suddenly my brother entered into my room and squeezed my boobs.. i was so shocked but i didn't want to say out... as i thought it would never occur again..
But just yesterday,he came again, squeeze my boobs and touched my pubic area... Eeeekkk!!!!
What should i do??? I cannot bear to tell my parents.. his my little brother... ='(
By the way, i'm 17 and he is 14..
Don't stand for it. Don't tolerate it. If he tries to do it again, *scream* at the top of your voice. Or punch him. Or scream and punch him.
Your loyalty to your brother is admirable. Do you think he feels the same loyalty towards you? You must tell your parents, or some other adult you trust. What he's doing is not okay, and he needs to learn that *now*. He needs to get out of the habit of sneaking into people's bedrooms to steal illicit thrills, right now.
I know how hard it is to speak out. I wish you all the strength you need. Please don't allow him to victimise you.
ETA: Your brother isn't an innocent child at 14, unless he has some mental retardation you didn't mention. Trust me, he knows what he's doing and he knows that it's wrong. And any responsibility is *his* to shoulder, NOT YOURS.
Consider that one day, your brother might have a daughter.
Are you seriuos, or r u a troll??
if u are serious, tell your parents!!
Tell your brother that you will tell your parents if he doesn't stop.
~Mary-Kate
lock your door and DO NOT let him get away with it again, that is disgusting and he must have a problem. if he tries again, you either need to talk to him or talk to your parents, i know it can be embarassing, but that should not be allowed and needs to be dealt with
You need to tell him to stop and if he doesn't then you will tell your parents. By you not reacting, he believes you are OK with his actions.
tell your parents. he needs to get help and you shouldnt just let him keep hurting you! please.
Pull your brother aside and ask him what the hell he is doing! Perhaps make sure he knows that that behaviour is VERY inappropriate and if it continues you'd be telling your parents. I grew up with brothers and never had anything like this happen. I don't think its a normal or okay thing for him to do (even if he is young and learning more about the human body and sex).
ok he wants to have fun just act like u dont no
you need to tell him to knock it off or ull tell the parents and hes gona get in trouble and if he still keeps doing it you have no choice but to tell unless you wana be herrased over and over by him. hes at the age that hes interested in girls maybe he doesent understand that hes not supposed to be interested in his sis so you have to explain it to him. and start locking your door when you sleep lol
you need to tell your parents, if he sees your not doing anything about it, he is just going to get worse
You need to talk to your parents asap! Why would you not tell them? Tell them so they can talk to him about why this is happening and it is their job to take care of the rest of it. You are not responsible for his actions they are!!!
I can't believe you didn't do something after the first incident. If you're 17 it's time you stand up for yourself. Make sure he knows it's not okay to do that at all. He's at an awkward, horny, experimental age, but that isn't an excuse for him to invade your privacy like that. If you can't make him stop then I'd get your parents involved.
OR
you could just let him do it.
Your call.
First, sit him down and talk to him. Ask him why he ever did that. Then explain to him why it's not right and that he's to never do it again. And if he does, let him know you'll tell your parents.
...Ew...
Alright, if he is 14, he should know better. You should tell him that your his sister and that it is gross for him to touch you, and then tell your parents. Because even if you think it is harmless or whatever, it could be serious problem. He should know right from wrong at that age and should know that doing that is wrong, and if he doesn't know that that is wrong then there might be something mentally wrong with him. Tell your parents! He might need help!
You cant be serious. You're 17 and he is 14. You think by not saying anything you are doing anyone a favour? He will keep doing it and who knows...maybe next time it wont just be touching. Why would you want to protect someone who has vioalted you??? Blood or not...wrong is wrong.
I know EXACTLY how you feel. People say " just tell yor parents", but you just really cant because it would break up the family, and would they believe you ..?
Just don't speak to him for a while and give him funny looks .. maybe he will get the hint. If it carries on, just tell him to stop, I know it will be hard but just do it. Dont menion it though unless he does it again, as hes 14 and goin through puberty and stuff. Good luck I really hope he stops.
A well-aimed knee would calm his curiosity. He has to learn that this is not appropriate!
not good tell him to respect you give him good example of how to respect woman if you you let him touch you again hes going to think that it is normal to have sex with the menber of the family and when he grow up can became a bad person
tell to stop being a ***,
tell him he is a sick perv and needs to stop.
or just give him a good smack in the face.
i know you dont want to hurt him, but i dont think he honestly cares about how you feel if he is doing this.
sorry =/