About sex and pregnancy?!


Question: last night my boyfriend (he's 17yo) asked me if I wanna have sex with him and i said no cos im scared.. I know that nowadays a lot of underage girls got pregnant *by accident* so i dont wanna hav sex with him.. but then he said i wont get pregnant cos im only 13yo and i just got my first period,,and he said he wont c*m inside.. is that true that i wont get pregnant?

please help, i dont know anything about this.. i dont get any sex ed at school and when i asked about this to my friends, they didnt know either..

anyway please dont tell me to ask my mom. i dont have one.

thankyou so much for helping..

mm if you think i shouldnt do it, please tell me how tell my boyfriend..i hope he wont get mad at me :(


Answers: last night my boyfriend (he's 17yo) asked me if I wanna have sex with him and i said no cos im scared.. I know that nowadays a lot of underage girls got pregnant *by accident* so i dont wanna hav sex with him.. but then he said i wont get pregnant cos im only 13yo and i just got my first period,,and he said he wont c*m inside.. is that true that i wont get pregnant?

please help, i dont know anything about this.. i dont get any sex ed at school and when i asked about this to my friends, they didnt know either..

anyway please dont tell me to ask my mom. i dont have one.

thankyou so much for helping..

mm if you think i shouldnt do it, please tell me how tell my boyfriend..i hope he wont get mad at me :(

First you can get pregnant quite young, I've heard someone got pregnant at 11, you've had your first period? therefore you can get pregnant.

Second your not old enough to decide if you want to have sex, you are underage therefore cannot make the decision, the law is called Age of Consent, basically if he had sex with you it's rape because you can't give consent understand?

Third why would he say he won't c*m inside if you can't get pregnant? think about it. He probably just wants sex from you and is just going to leave you as soon as he gets it, or it gets boring.

Fourth if you tell him you don't want to have sex he will probably leave you, but that's a good thing, it might hurt at first but you would be doing yourself a big favor by getting out of that relationship.

Last one, if your just going to ignore everything i said even though I'm 100% right, if your going to do something stupid at least buy some condoms or something so you can at least protect yourself.

Look, if he needs sex so bad then he isn't with you because he cares about you, save your virginity for someone who will actually care about you in the future, plan ahead. If you don't understand most of the things i've put in this answer it proves you shouldn't obviously do it, your first time having sex should be special.

Your 13 he's 17. DO NOT do it, it is illegal. And he is using you because he can't get anyone of his own age. Sorry hunny but there's no way on this planet he loves you.

You can get pregnant if you are 13 or not. You do not sound ready so don't let him pressure you. He says he wont *** in you but you do not know that, plus there are worst things that you can get other than pregnant. You can get infections and diseases. You sound very sensible so I hope you make the right choice. if you do decide to have sex, use a condom.

you can easily get pregnant at your age...
Even if he is wearing a condum or does not go inside you.
you need to wait till your 18.
it is also illegal for you to have sex at this age especially with a 17 year old, he can go to jail...

Please wait or you will ruin your life...

yer i dont think you should tell your boyfriend your not ready then c what his reaction is (:

ok DONT even if he does not ejaculate inside you you canget pregnant due to somthing called preejaculatory fluid which is a drop of sperm which unlike an ejaculation no guy can feel so if your going to it without a condoare stupid sojust use a condom and done just worry about pregnancy but about aids and stuff like that so watchout

PLEASE dont do it!!!!
Firstly, you have started your periods so, yes, you can get pregnant, even if he doesn't c*m inside you, some of the sprem can leak during sex.
You must always wear a condom because you could catch any type of sexually transmitted infections which can be very harmful to your health such as Chlamidiya and AIDS. If you want to know more about STD's then research them on google.

If your boyfriend is not supportive of your decision to not have sex yet then you should not be with someone like that. At only 13 years old you shouldnt really be dating a 17 year old but that is your choice. Make sure he repects you though, if he gets mad, LEAVE HIM! Even though it might be hard to because you like him, you should not be pressured into something you are not comfortable with.

Please be safe. If you do decide to have sex (which you shouldn;t) please please please make sure your boyfriend wears a condom.
But from what ive read you are definately not ready to have sex!

First of all, it would be illegal for you to have sex at your age. Your boyfriend could face some legal ramifications if the wrong person finds out. He probably thinks that won't happen, but you never know. It's a risk that you probably don't want to take at your age.

Secondly, you can absolutely get pregnant at your age. If you've started your period, you should consider yourself fertile, therefore able to get pregnant. Even if he doesn't ejaculate inside of you, you could still get pregnant.

I would highly recommend not having sex yet. It sounds like he's really trying to pressure you into it, and you're very young still. If he's going to get mad at you for not wanting to have sex at 13, then you probably don't want to be with him. Just tell him how you feel. Let him know that you're not ready for the possible consequences of sex (namely pregnancy), and that the only way to have 100% protection against that is to not have sex.

If you can, please talk to an adult that you trust - a teacher, an aunt, an older sibling, cousin, a friend's mother - someone who's older and wiser. They could be of great support to you in this time, especially if your boyfriend is not cooperative with you.

I'm gonna tell you what i told my baby sister when she asked me a similar question.
You are not ready to have sex until you are aware of all the consequences and responsibilities that go along with it. Get some books out of the library, read cosmo. talk to people in your life, grown ups as well as your girl friends at school. when you feel that you have all the information you probably dont and should research some more. Go visit a family planning clinic and talk to them. Have the information you need to protect yourself from pregnancy and sexually transmitted diseases and also from being hurt (especially by older men who sound very much like they are trying to take advantage of you).
Finally, when you have all this information. wait. Sex is not something you should plan to do to please someone or prevent them from being mad at you, it is something that should happen as an expression of passion, desire and something you at least think is love.
In short - yes you are old enough to get pregnant and if you are silly enough to let this boy pressure you into something you certainly don't sound ready for, at least use condoms!
But my true advice is this. Say no. If he loves you he will wait until you are old enough (i'm talking years not months) to make this decision with all the information, if he doesn't he will get angry in which case i suggest you dump him as he is obviously just trying to take advantage of you.





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