Ladies only question: should I care what these other ladies say?!
Question: I have been insecure with my chest size for quite awhile. Several girls have told me that I don't have breasts. Should I care what they say? I've considered augmentation because of my insecurity with my chest size.
Answers: I have been insecure with my chest size for quite awhile. Several girls have told me that I don't have breasts. Should I care what they say? I've considered augmentation because of my insecurity with my chest size.
omg me 2!!! ok well im kinda small too, but i always try to keep in mind that i have time to grow... but even if i didnt, its not all about boobs. its UR body NOT theirs. those women are INSECURE so pay them no mind.
***SMILE!!!!!
definately do not listen to what other women say if they're being judgemental
it's your body so then them to shove it
My friend tells me that all the time, mine are small, I said id rather have my boobs than the saggy oversized stretchmark ridden things that hang off her chest, that shut her up lol.
just be happy with yourself. i have DD's and dont think they look big so i dont think any1s ever happy with theirselves :)
No, you shouldn't care what they say. Be proud of what you have and be confident. If your confident, nobody should judge you. Maybe the reason some of those girls confronted you about your supposed "problem" is that they, themselves, are not comfortable with their body.
Do not listen to what they say. I know it is hard to tune out the haters who want to make you feel bad about yourself in a last-ditch attempt to make them feel good about themselves, but you just have to do it. Learn to love who YOU are, for exactly how God made you, and not compare yourself to what society says 'pretty' is.
I am a small-chested girl myself and I have definitely battled with insecurities about my size, but eventually I realized that I am who I am and that person is not defined by a cup size. I am more attractive because of my personality than I ever would be because of my chest. A man might be initially attracted to a woman by her boobs, but he doesn't marry her for them. Despite the way things may seem sometimes, it really is what's INSIDE that matters - how it's packaged isn't so important in the long run.
So next time someone makes a rude comment about your breast size, just say to them, "I don't have a problem with the way I am, why do you?" It will shut them up and get the point across in a hurry that their comments are rude and uncalled for.
Good luck!
As long as you are happy with what you have then I wouldn't worry about it. Men love a variety of breast sizes so there is no "perfect" breast size. What one may find repulsive may be another man's dream and vice versa. Also know that breasts are sexual to men, but true love is not determined by the size of a woman's breasts. Should you find yourself unhappy with the size then by all means, consider augmentation. But only if you are considering the procedure for YOU.
there is probly something else about you that they love, and they ont have. so they tease you to make them selves feel better. My bra size is a B and I love it. people tease me all the time about it. II just tell them the same thing I have always been told. " a handful is just right, more then a handful just get in the way:(lol) the other ladies, well they don't have to like it. why they looking anyway. I am sure you are perfect just the way you are, heck with them.
Breast size isnt important. flat chested celebrities are are still extremely beautiful, such as jessica alba. Only consider surgery if your doing it for you. would you be happier this way? your friends would probably still critisize you even if you had them done. ask them how they would feel if you commented on their insecurities.