Could you please help me with this embarrassing question about my girlfriend?!


Question: We have been dating for a few months now and her personal hygiene is not great..We live by the sea and some nights when we go out i am sure sea gulls are following us..
I have had mental problems with my paranoia before but its really getting me down..how can i tell her to be more hygienic without offending her.

thanks so much for not judging me


Answers: We have been dating for a few months now and her personal hygiene is not great..We live by the sea and some nights when we go out i am sure sea gulls are following us..
I have had mental problems with my paranoia before but its really getting me down..how can i tell her to be more hygienic without offending her.

thanks so much for not judging me

What a skank, maybe if you stopped picking up chicks at pub closing, you would have better luck. Try a vodka douche at least that's a flavor your familiar with.

buy her a new shower gel take a bath together! comment on how nice she smells after the bath and that if she keeps oon smelling like that then there will be a suprise in store! that way she might keep it up, good luck!

Gawd i dunno! All i know is id be mortified if id been going around stinking and no one had told me. If i were to be told, id rather someone just say hmmm "sometimes you have a bit of BO" or something like that.

Dont go on about it. One mention should be moooore than enough and you'll have an embarrassed girlfriend.

Or maybe you can take her to lush or bodyshop and buy her some stuff and say "i like when you smell of X" maybe she'll start using a particular product regularly for you.

Good luck

If she has an actual odor, she may have in infection, so keep that in mind.

Try by not actually verbally telling her that you think she could clean herself better, but try telling her by starting to make a habit of taking a shower together before having sex. Be sure to mention how much you enjoy being so clean with her and being able to enjoy sex more that way.

If this doesn't work, you might just want to try to break it to her gently. If you're having sex with her, you should be able to communicate about these kinds of things, even if they are a bit embarrassing.

EDIT: You could also try telling her that you have a bit of phobia about vaginal smell and would love to perform more oral sex on her, but would really appreciate if you would keep herself extra clean for you so that its more comfortable for both of you.

well you should state the facts first. for instance you should say you know if you don't brush your teeth it is bad for you

Well for one, Does she shower often, if she doesn't why don't you convince her to shower with you and make is a fun thing. Tell her that you like when she is all nice a clean when you want to be with her intimately. Maybe then she'll get the hint.
Good luck.

buy her some new shower gel!! It would make her feel special and then take a hot bath with her. Keep on telling her how nice she smells because of the new shower gel. also, you shouldn't be afraid to talk about it. After taking the hot bath with her take a nice walk on the beach. Kiss her tenderly and tell her that she smells great. It will make her feel great and stuff so she'll keep it up.

EDIT: She could also have a Vaginal Infection so keep that in mind, try showering before having sex with her.

if her breath really smells that bad, tell her that brushing her teeth would help out. She probably doesn't brush her teeth.

im not judgin u but i think u r brave for keepin her around

man up and eat that kitty

say wash or your dumped you sell foul or say lets take a shower together why date a dirty live like a Happy but wash I say

Get her a hand-held shower head with pulsating settings. You may go broke paying the water bill but you'll never have this complaint again.

are you sure is not your mental problems with paranoia thats kicking in

yah, buy her some new shower gel.

Well Dear Wil L? who would ever judge you? I know you are well known for being a little thick....but dear..............you know this is only in your imagination? the sea gulls are not following you? Don't take any deep breaths?

Are you for real? Seagulls won't be out at night anyway. Twonk.

Damn, you don't like easy topics, do you!!!

Try it from the other end of things. When she has just washed her hair--compliment, compliment, compliment her on how pretty she smells.

When you jump in the lake, tell her how much you love the smell of fresh air and sunlight on her.

When you're alone, give her a small bottle of body mist (Calgon has a variety of scents for about 6 bucks per).

That's about the best I can do, just be spontaneous with your compliments, and wear some good after shave yourself!

Why not make a romantic evening with her. Draw a nice bubble bath with some lovely scents candles glass of wine. Both of you jump in and bathe each other. She gets clean and you both have fun. :)

This is not a sensitif issue anymore...just tell her. She should be smelling good for her love one and if she doesnt....tell her! You gonna live with her and for that matter both must be happy with each other... If you claim that you loves her...so tell her!!

She have to accept it whether she likes it or not...and if she loves you like she claims....she will do something about it..

and WIL....fyi, please be prepared to get sand on the face when you tell her...LOL :)!!!

How about dumping her for someone who is hygienic and santitary?





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