Sex--First time.?!
Question: Well, I'm a virgin and want to have sex. I'm !really! tight down there and my boyfriend is !verrryyy! "gifted" if you know what I mean... I'm scared to have sex because I'm scared I'm going to tear inside. But I have no doubt in my mind, I want to have sex with him. Any tips on how I can not tear, or even if you can tear? Help with pain lol. I'm clueless!
Answers: Well, I'm a virgin and want to have sex. I'm !really! tight down there and my boyfriend is !verrryyy! "gifted" if you know what I mean... I'm scared to have sex because I'm scared I'm going to tear inside. But I have no doubt in my mind, I want to have sex with him. Any tips on how I can not tear, or even if you can tear? Help with pain lol. I'm clueless!
It;s not going to be completely painless. If this is someone you are completely comfortable with you should have no problem talking to him about the following. I suggest you use a lubricant and I wouldn't get crazy with your first time (scented, flavored, warming, tingling, etc.). Also, tell him to ease into it. Slow initial penetration and him not going after you like a rabbit will help a ton. It also helps if he warms you up properly...relaxes you..if he uses his fingers first it won't come as a complete shock when the sex starts. Just relax and take it slow; after all it is your first time and you have the rest of your life to be adventurous. :)
motion lotion
try sticking some other things in their first
try some lubricant and relax cuz if u stressed u gon be really really tight....so just let it go lol
You should wait until marrige ;]
Use more lube. Pain will occur sometimes other times it will not. If your that desperate the pain is the least of your worries. Hope this helps
i would make sure your either naturally well lubricated or use a well lubricated condom. but honestly i don't think you'll have a lot of trouble because your vagina is a lot more elastic-y then you think. i think you'll be just fine just talk to him about it and let him know your concerned. i would tell him to be as slow, deep, and gentle as possible.
First of all dont be freaked out cuz the more stressed you are the more pain you will feel!! So juss relax!
Try to stick objects with lotion in and it will make you loosen up! I PROMISE!!