Is it okay to do this with some close friends?! PLEASE HELP!?!


Question: okay well me and my friends some times we just get out of the pool and get dressed together, and half the time she looks and me and i dont look at her, but she has seen my but, the front and my boobs. when i am at her house she makes me pee in front of her or in the woods, or in a bootle. i went to her house for a camping trip, and she made me take off my underwear and pants and pee into a bottle in front of her. i am only 13 and stuff but still i dont like it. and also she has a pool and when we have to go pee we just get out of the pool and pull the bottoms down and pee infront f eachother but agian i dont look at her when i am done she is alwasy staring at my "front". what should i do?!


Answers: okay well me and my friends some times we just get out of the pool and get dressed together, and half the time she looks and me and i dont look at her, but she has seen my but, the front and my boobs. when i am at her house she makes me pee in front of her or in the woods, or in a bootle. i went to her house for a camping trip, and she made me take off my underwear and pants and pee into a bottle in front of her. i am only 13 and stuff but still i dont like it. and also she has a pool and when we have to go pee we just get out of the pool and pull the bottoms down and pee infront f eachother but agian i dont look at her when i am done she is alwasy staring at my "front". what should i do?!

You are young, so she she is probably just curious. Things may be happening to her body that she is unsure of. She just might want to see if you are experiencing the same thing as her. As long as she is not touching you, or making you touch her, I think it is alright to look.

tell her that t makes you uncomfortable and ask her to please stop

well that isn't o.k. at all unless ur a homo. I would tell her u dont like that stuff and if she continues, stop talkinh to her

tell her you dont like it!!!!!! she may like you more than a friend...but dont get freaked out please!! i was just hypothesizing...
hope i helped :]

tell her u want to watch her pee too.. its very sexy to watch a girl pee.

First of all, it's normal for girls to be curious about the way other girls look. Especially at a young age of 13. But peeing in a bottle in front of her is a little weird. Next time, just tell her that you are uncomfortable and ask if you can go somewhere else by yourself.

Well what you should do is tell your friend that your not comfortable with her looking at you as when you use the restroom and you can also tell her that you want privacy when you do use the restroom also that she has no right making you pee in a bottle or watching you pee. just tell her that you need space and dont feel comfortable when she stairs at you.

From listening to you, I see how uncomfortable this makes you. No this is not normal. Haven't you heard of bathrooms? You keep stating that your friend MAKES you do things. No one should force another to do anything. It's time to get new friends.

I think you should tell her how you feel about it: that it makes you feel violated, weird... And make it stop! Don't do anything you feel uncomfortaable doing! (btw im 13 too, but its never happened 2 me)

LOL, how does she MAKE you? and how old is she?

congratulations. you got you got yourself a weirdo. in my side of africa we know that witches take part of your body (hair, nails) or body fluids (blood urine, even your panties to get whats smeared on them) to harm, hurt or manipulate you. infact we down here are very concious of where these things end up, how much more when some one is making a request as freaky as your friend. if she is not a witch, then she is on her way to becoming a freaky lesbo. if that sort of thing is not your scene (and i hope so too) i suggest you begin to boycot your campn trips and lessen the time you spend to gether.

tell her it makes you uncomfortable! If she doesn't respect that then she is not a true friend. She sounds older than you. I would make sure to talk to her ASAP

Some curiousity about each other is natural. But the fact that you're saying your friend is MAKING you do things, and that you feel uncomfortable, is what makes this a problem. The actions itself aren't necessarily weird, but the fact that you don't want to do this and your friend is making you do something you don't want to do IS a problem.

Tell her that you are uncomfortable and you want her to stop, and if she doesn't, then just get out of the situation (leave the room, go home if she gets really insistent, whatever you have to do).

she may be interested in you, she may have a pee fetish.

if she is your friend she WILL NOT force you to do anything, tell her that you do not feel comfortable doing it.

if she pushes the issue, dont be her friend.

it sounds like a weird kind of abuse, i know girls are comfortable with seeing eachother naked, while guys hide to change etc, and they will take a pee infront of you, it just seems weird she forces you too.

tell her it makes u uncomfortable, she cant complain





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