Worrying over nothing?!
Question: Before I start I want to say that I am not a teenager. I'm 22 and have been dating my boyfriend for a year. I tried going on birth control pills but they all gave me terrible side effects so I stopped taking them last month. I got my period after stopping and on day 8,9,10 and 11 of my cycle we had sex. we used condoms and were very careful, he pulled out before he came. But on the 9th day of my cycle his penis touched my pubic bone, near my vagina before we got the condom on. Ok. He didn't even go in me and there was no sperm on him and he said he was completely dry. I have obsessive compulsive disorder and take meds for that. I have obsessively worried in the past that I was pregnant and never was. My boyfriend and I love each other and have loving families that would support us in having a baby if i were to get pregnant.but I think I'm just obsessing again and don't need to be worried at all. I know I have to wait and see .. but is it likely I'd be pregnant from precum outside of me
Answers: Before I start I want to say that I am not a teenager. I'm 22 and have been dating my boyfriend for a year. I tried going on birth control pills but they all gave me terrible side effects so I stopped taking them last month. I got my period after stopping and on day 8,9,10 and 11 of my cycle we had sex. we used condoms and were very careful, he pulled out before he came. But on the 9th day of my cycle his penis touched my pubic bone, near my vagina before we got the condom on. Ok. He didn't even go in me and there was no sperm on him and he said he was completely dry. I have obsessive compulsive disorder and take meds for that. I have obsessively worried in the past that I was pregnant and never was. My boyfriend and I love each other and have loving families that would support us in having a baby if i were to get pregnant.but I think I'm just obsessing again and don't need to be worried at all. I know I have to wait and see .. but is it likely I'd be pregnant from precum outside of me
Since you two love each other and your boyfriend says he was dry, then you should trust him and stop worrying.
You're fine.
abstinence is the only prevention for pregnancy
You are probably ok. This has happened to me many times.
most definately not...the moment the sperm hits the air it dies....anyway have you tried other forms of birth control such as depovera, ita an injection, you dont have to take a pill there are so many different forms of birth control i think you should look into it you shouldnt really be thinking about having children at your age...