Why aren't my breasts growing as fast as my friends are?!


Question: I am almost 14, and still a 34A in chest-size - which is pretty flat compared to most of my friends who are well in their Bs, Cs and even Ds. It's not like I'm obsessed with big boobs, but I want atleast bigger breasts; because honestly, it will help boost confidence in myself.
I guess I have a pretty low-esteem on myself since my friends always pester me that guys don't look at pretty faces anymore. And I'm really self-concious because I'm entering high school in September. I got my period when I was 12, so why are my boobs still small? I don't get it. My mom has a D chest, and as far as I know the women in my family don't have small boobs. I eat pretty healthy, I'm somewhat athletic.
I know a lot of people will say I'm lucky that I have small boobs, because there are benefits that come with it. But, it doesn't hurt for them to grow just a little big bigger.
So basically, why aren't they growing? And when will they finally grow?


Answers: I am almost 14, and still a 34A in chest-size - which is pretty flat compared to most of my friends who are well in their Bs, Cs and even Ds. It's not like I'm obsessed with big boobs, but I want atleast bigger breasts; because honestly, it will help boost confidence in myself.
I guess I have a pretty low-esteem on myself since my friends always pester me that guys don't look at pretty faces anymore. And I'm really self-concious because I'm entering high school in September. I got my period when I was 12, so why are my boobs still small? I don't get it. My mom has a D chest, and as far as I know the women in my family don't have small boobs. I eat pretty healthy, I'm somewhat athletic.
I know a lot of people will say I'm lucky that I have small boobs, because there are benefits that come with it. But, it doesn't hurt for them to grow just a little big bigger.
So basically, why aren't they growing? And when will they finally grow?

Take it from someone who knows...if it's meant to be, it's meant to be. And thinness has NOTHING to do with breast growth.

When I was your age, I was also a 34A. What's worse, my 9 year old cousin (who was as thin as a rail) had a C-cup. Needless to say, I wasn't too happy. But then I guess she wasn't happy to have big boobs in the 4th grade either (and neither were her 3 older brothers). But I digress.

You are not your friends. Don't believe anyone who tells you that guys only look at boobs. The only type of guys who are more concerned with boobs are usually boobs themselves. Even with my small chest, I dated a lot in high school because I found guys who liked me for who I was and not my chest size. Yes, I wanted bigger boobs back then, because I wanted to be like my friends. But I discovered that there were guys who didn't care about the size of my boobs. Yes, I got teased, but I also kicked his *** as well. :) Once you enter high school, you will find that there are many girls who are also flat.

If you choose to be more athletic, you'll find that a smaller chest can be beneficial. There is still the possibility that you may get bigger before you graduate HS, or you may not get bigger until after your first child. Who knows? But don't worry about your boobs for now. Most guys like girls who show confidence in themselves.

BTW: I am now a 34yo mother of 3 and wear a 36A-B cup (which means more than A but not quite B). But I can still turn heads when I walk down the street.

are you a thin person? thin people have a hard time getting breasts you need to be able to retain fat to grow breasts i suggest you try a lot of milk and some protein packed foods like meat red meat if you can good luck

Melly

don't worry your boobs will grow when your body is ready.Everyone's body is different and everyone's body produces a different amount of hormones.Your friends' bodies just produce a lot of hormones at a fast rate.

You have different genes than your friends do. There is no way that you'll have an identical experience as your friends. Just know that they will come in their own time. If the women in your family have large breasts, it may mean that you will also. However, keep in mind that sometimes the "growth" doesn't reach its full potential until after you have given birth sometimes.

My mom has large breasts, so does my sis. I have "medium" sized. My sis is a double D, but only after having two kids.

Just hang in there, they'll "come in" at heir own speed.

That's really a question that no one can answer. Your body is going to do what it wants. Your breasts can grow until you hit your early 20s so don't lose hope just yet. I know my breasts didn't really stop until I was 20, whereas I stopped growing in height when I was 12, and I started my period at 10. You've still got time, so you're just going to have to wait it out and see. And seriously, don't listen to your friends. I had a C cup by the time I was 14 and a D cup by the time I graduated high school, and I was asked on one date in the four years of high school (and I was by no means ugly or fat) and that one guy was my best friend. Guys may look at big boobs, but they're not going to give you the time of day if you're insecure, no matter how big your boobs are. My friends who were heavier than me and had smaller boobs got more attention from guys than I did because they felt good about themselves and projected that.

just wait they come

Girls grow at different rates. They will come when you least expect them. There is no miracle cure, just be patient...

Different things happen to different people. One of my friends was the last to start growing boobs out of our group and when she started secondary school she overtook us all and is now a D going on E.
I'm growing slowly but surely. Just let things take their time, in the meanwhile, wear padded bras or stuff your bra if your that self conscieous about it. Your body will catch up soon enough.

You're breasts arent growing as fast as your friends because you are different. Don't compare yourself to other people! Every1 is different. Why do some ppl have huge butts and other ppl have no butt? Every person is different. You're only 14. You have plenty of time. Maybe you're a late bloomer. But they continue to grow into the twenties so you have plenty of time. Also, its not true. As you grow older and meet ppl, and if you meet a guy who really cares about you, he's not gonna care about boobs. Guys love confidence, cute faces and personality. No one knows when they will grow. So don't freak out. Maybe they will be D's.

you cant except to be like every one else wen i was that old i didn't were a bra now I'm a D so just be happy with your self

some people start growing late, one of my friends have had boobs since she was 9 and they were finished growing in 6th grade. my other friend is a sophomore in high school and is still completely flat. my mom has D cups too but I'm still a B/C because I'm still growing. your probably still growing too, your breasts don't reach their final size until you are 18-20 years old

and don't listen to your friends who say guys don't look at pretty faces, only shallow guys are look at only a girls boobs

also if you play sports and wear a sports bra, that flattens your chest because it presses against it can stunt growth

your only 14 you will probably grow





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