My fiance wants me to lose weight for him but i think that's wrong, what sho!


Question: If you're comfortable in your own skin, then you should tell him to appreciate YOU no matter how small or how big you are.

Couples actually gain weight when they become comfortable with each other. This is especially common during the first year or two of marriage.


Looks aren't everything, and not every women can look "perfect" for their entire lives.



Edit - How the hell did THIS earn a thumbs down? If she's comfortable in her own damn skin, then he needs to accept that. I'm sure he's going to put on few pounds down the line after the wedding. IT HAPPENS. There's more to loving someone that's NOT based upon what their weight is and what they look like.


Answers: If you're comfortable in your own skin, then you should tell him to appreciate YOU no matter how small or how big you are.

Couples actually gain weight when they become comfortable with each other. This is especially common during the first year or two of marriage.


Looks aren't everything, and not every women can look "perfect" for their entire lives.



Edit - How the hell did THIS earn a thumbs down? If she's comfortable in her own damn skin, then he needs to accept that. I'm sure he's going to put on few pounds down the line after the wedding. IT HAPPENS. There's more to loving someone that's NOT based upon what their weight is and what they look like.

how much weight is it? and are you overweight?

well ask him or try to think of why he wants you to lose weight. then maybe you guys can do it together. or maybe he is just being an ***.

well it depends. are you obese? or just 15 lbs overwieght? either way do what makes you feel good about yourself. an if he loves you he will accept you how you are regardless of your size. I was blessed with a man that loves no matter what!

RUN RUN REALLY FAST! if you aren't even married and he has already found flaws in you dump him or sit on him whichever applies,and if he met you at the size you are now then he should love you at that size and not want you to change for any reason, what you see is what you get ,it is your choice to be the way you are now and forever, now if you gained it after you met him then you let go of the hotdog and lose the weight good luck

you should lose weight if you love him. simple really

it depends if he is looking out for your health then lose weight , have a look at your body mass index to see wether you are over weight and judge the need to diet from there . if you are average then tell him to get lost your healthy weight and if he doesnt want you to be healthy you dont want him , diet for you not for him good uck xxx

It depends. Have you recently gained weight, because he could think it's unhealthy depending on if you have and how much you have. Or he could simply not like you heavier, which seems shallow but I'd probably tell my fiance/boyfriend to lose weight if he was a little pudgier than I would like. Is this a new thing? If it's not a new thing, why are you still with someone who obviously seems controlling? If it IS a new thing, he is probably concerned. Obviously it's your body, but whats so wrong with wanting to look nice for your significant other?

How tall are you? How old are you? How much do you weigh? Is it a healthy weight?

If you are overweight, you should get your cholesterol checked. If its bad, working out will improve your cholesterol score.

You should lose weight because YOU want to.

The free E-book on this site might be just what you need to help you lose weight. It's a free download so at least it won't hurt to try it.





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