Why are men not concerned with wearing a condom?!
Question: Me and my girlfriends have noticed that 99% of guys will not wear a condom unless we make them, they choose the "pull-out"method, are guys not concerned about stds or pregnancy??
Answers: Me and my girlfriends have noticed that 99% of guys will not wear a condom unless we make them, they choose the "pull-out"method, are guys not concerned about stds or pregnancy??
well they arent the ones that are gona be pregnent so they usualy dont care about that and its really hard for guys to catch a desease from just sex unless they give you oral. cus it doesent go up their penis as easly as it goes in to our vaginas. and most men dont really care at the moment about anything but getting off. they think pull out wil avoid pregnency wich isnt true it is very possible to get pregnent even if thye pull out cus alot of the times the precome has some sperm in it so dont belive them and always use a condom.
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you shouldve post this in the mens health section
because they dont have to worry about a baby growing inside of their nonexistant uterus
because they're not the ones that can potentially get pregnant.
I sincerely doubt that you and your girlfriends know "99%" of guys. Perhaps your selection process needs a fine tuning.
they're more concerned with the 'here and now' than the 'here and 9 months later'
because they don't have to carry the baby for nine months
i can't believe you and your friends have slept with 99% of guys. that's an amazing feat. and why weren't you concerned that they didn't? maybe a gentle warning: "hey, you might want to wear one of these, I've just slept with 300 guys yesterday.
apparantly not thats why aids stds and unwanted preganacy is so high and we as women need to make them or not give them sex at all the pull out method doesnt even work you can get pregnant off of pre nut
um they are big fools who only care about the feeling of sex none of the other stuff matters
cuz they dont have to worry abt getting pregnant..and their too lazy to put on a condom whcih doesnt even take tht long..they might also think tht their invincible and wont catch any kind of disease
I think it feels alot better to them without the condom. Plus it's kinda embarrassing for them to be stumbling around with a condom in the heat of the moment.
I think guys always have that "It won't happen to me." thought when it come to STDs and pregnancy.
They aren't concerned because they think that if the girl gets pregnant, it's HER problem not THEIRS. Some guys....not all, though.
because they think they are invincible and think that they will not end up with STDs or they think they can "pull out" just in time. Now, I will admit... from the female perspective it does feel better without a condom (they can be drying) however, I know that it is wiser to either use a condom or forego sex all together.
guys just think about "the now" which in this situation would be sex. they arent thinking about unwanted pregnancy or stds. thats just how guys are. but i would definetly suggest to him to wear one unless your on the pill or get the shot. its not only the guys responsibility anymore. many girls/women get the shot or take the pill to prevent and to protect themselves.
As a guy, I would always wrap it. Maybe the guys you meet aren't thinking. It's too risky to mess with anyone who would attempt the pull out method.
Does that mean he was exposed to other women or men and then was with you.
Get away from that guy. Trust me, there are MANY men looking for safe, fun sex. You can do better than some guy who isn't thinking about your safety so he can have his fun.
You should have been more specific: it's not 99% of guys, it's 99% of guys that you and your girlfriends know. I don't know where you live, but these guys sound pretty ignorant and stupid. For that matter, why are you and your girlfriends having intercourse with these guys?
I am a man who is concerned about wearing a condom. I would never have intercourse without wearing one. You and your girlfriends should insist that these guys wear one.
Well, its the Heat of the moment.....plus soooo much better with out the condom!!!!
They claim that condoms kill the sensation. While that may be true to a certain degree, I guess they tend to not be as concerned with STDs since men, due to the nature of their genitalia, are less likely to get them (not to say that is a tremendous degree less than a woman) Also, men always have that defense of "It's not my baby." They aren't concerned about pregnancy as much because it isn't their body. The pull out method isn't the greatest birth control method, it's only around 60%. Essentially, they get you pregnant and laugh about it, another notch on their belt. Stick to your guns---no condom, no sex, and you won't be as likely to get pregnant, and will be STD free.
scary, huh? I think that many have an "it can't happen to me" attitude. Just another reminder to insist on one EVERY time since most of them have been dippin' their wankers in everyone elses' sauce!!!
I'm that .1% that do care and always wear a condom. Most guys just don't like the feeling of wearing one. But that is not a good reason to use one especially with the risks of STD's, Aids, and preganacy.
I think that they aren't as concerned about STD's and maybe they think that: 1. they won't mess up and pull out too late and even if they do you "probably won't get pregnant"; and 2. Sex feels ssssssooooooooooo much better without a condom that they are relying on "wishful thinking" in order to allow that.
I don't think the pregnancy thing is as real a threat to them unless/until it happens.... sorta like drinking and driving...it doesn't seem possible/likely until after you see the blue lights behind you.
Nope, they're not concerned; they just want to get laid. THEY aren't the ones who can get pregnant, so it's not nearly as important to them.
Some guys will be considerate--my husband was, when we were dating--but the majority won't, until they get older and gain some maturity.
When men are thinking about sex they are not using their brain they are using their d!*k to do the thinking. They dont get pregnant so they dont worry about that. STD, they may think that is not going to happen to me.
The way you posted the question makes it sound like guys don't mind wearing a condom.
Guys are only in it for pleasure they dont think about the aftermath. That is why there are so many man whore's and STDs.
because they just dont care about it
They're filthy pigs!
They think it feels better w/out condom...Husband hates condoms, but wore them w/ all his ex's for he did not wnat to knock them up..until he got to me he knocked me up..lol
Saying that men are not concerned with wearing condoms is a pretty general statement. Many men use condoms every time. A lot of younger guys may not use condoms for several reasons. some young guys are embarrassed to buy them at the store. Some guys think that sex feels better without condoms, so it's worth it to risk getting STDs. Some guys aren't even thinking about STDs or pregnancy....they're just really wanting to have sex and that's the only thing on their mind. In many cases, the guy may not be correctly informed about safe sex. I've heard tons of people make totally incorrect statements about sex, STDs, and pregnancy...for example some people think that they "pull-out method" is a definite way to prevent pregnancy. And of course you have the people that think "it'll never happen to me," when it comes to getting an STD or getting pregnant.
SOME men think that it's okay not to wear a condom only because more and more women are starting to take charge of the birth control options that are readily available for them (BCP, patches, depo, IUD's, sponges, coils, subdermal implanons, etc.)....and using the " I can't feel anything wearing a rubber " is a crap excuse.
Men think it's okay but in reality it's not, and they've become lazy about it.
IT'S YOUR RESPONSIBILITY TOO BOYS!!