Is not hitting on girls all the time okay?!
Question: Alright I'm a decent looking person. I've been around the block a few times even though I'm 15. I'm a very open person and usually the"life" of the party if you will.. Anway I've seen a few of my friends try to act like playa's and hit on girls non stop, it really pisses me off, not because I want the girls they go for, but it annoys the hell out of me they try to get girls like this. I never really flirt being I don't really think its cute or funny, or for that matter the right way to get a girl you actually care for, (not saying all flirting is wrong. And I'm not saying girls are pointless, I'm saying they just want to get some, if you catch my drift) Is it wrong for me not to want to do this, in more than one sense, morally and just from todays society and my age. I don't really care for it to much but my friends say alot "You need a girlfriend", and I'm not a real victim for peerpressure, (i've been offered everything from beer to drugs and have said no) but is okay?
Answers: Alright I'm a decent looking person. I've been around the block a few times even though I'm 15. I'm a very open person and usually the"life" of the party if you will.. Anway I've seen a few of my friends try to act like playa's and hit on girls non stop, it really pisses me off, not because I want the girls they go for, but it annoys the hell out of me they try to get girls like this. I never really flirt being I don't really think its cute or funny, or for that matter the right way to get a girl you actually care for, (not saying all flirting is wrong. And I'm not saying girls are pointless, I'm saying they just want to get some, if you catch my drift) Is it wrong for me not to want to do this, in more than one sense, morally and just from todays society and my age. I don't really care for it to much but my friends say alot "You need a girlfriend", and I'm not a real victim for peerpressure, (i've been offered everything from beer to drugs and have said no) but is okay?
i like guys like u a lot. no offense or anythin, but ur friends are gonna have terrible love lives 0.0 u seem like the kind of person every girl wants....her prince charming, if u will. but dont be afraid to flirt. just be gentle about it, and be urself :D
its fine you arent a asswhole is all. its all just stereotyping. you dont have to hit on chicks every time you see one.dont listen to them , maybe they are mad because you can be girls without hitting on dozens of them until one of them falls into the trap( as i call it)
i think its fine cuz quite frankly gurls dnt always like guys dat try 2 act all cool and always flirtin wit gurls cuz if a guys is always flirtin wit gurls b4 u hook up wit dem most likely they gonna b tryna flirt wit gurls wen they already got a gurl
it sounds like your a really good guy. and its totally normal to feel that way. some boys just dont feel the need to take advantage of girls. some boys were raised to appreciate them for what they are. your young, and may be having hormonal changes. and sometimes, can loose the desire for a while. Remember, dont be a follower. always treat the girls with respect. at that age, girls are very vulnerable, and boys can be so mean. you are doing the right thing.
It's more than okay! Props to you for not falling into the norm. Flirting/harassing girls non stop isn't as attractive as one might think, sure it's fun the first few times it happens but it really gets old fast. Just do you, and let your friends do what they think works for them, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that- go at your own pace! = )
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Seriously, I don't date playas and neither do most of my friends.
You're going about getting girls the correct way! It's fun to flirt with those kinds of guys but I would never want to enter into a relationship with them because it always seems like they just want nookie!
Yes it is absolutely fine, especially if your trying to find someone special. Simply talking with them will do two things first you will find out if this is someone you truly could be interested in and will let them do the same. Right now the girls your age love to talk, and when you get older they continue this, however at this point in time they really want someone to listen. Now for the warning, talking is great but the minute you think you would like the relationship to be more than just friends you need to let her know. Because there is nothing worse than the girl you like to say " I wish I could find someone like you" and then to keep dating others.
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