After anal sex?!
Question: I just had anal sex for the first time yesterday and i can't even sit down it hurts alot. The inside hurts too cause he went too deep. What should i do? Are there any medications at the local drug store i can get?
Answers: I just had anal sex for the first time yesterday and i can't even sit down it hurts alot. The inside hurts too cause he went too deep. What should i do? Are there any medications at the local drug store i can get?
I have had MANY anal virgins and they never had this problem because I didn't force the issue and let them control the depth, speed and duration. He only needs to be in about 2-3 inches to be able to orgasm.... (1/3 of my ****). You should stimulate your clitoris while it's happening and you'll have some very powerful orgasms yourself.
If he was hurting you, you should have spoken up! Anal sex can be a great time for both! You are driving not him. You are the one on the receiving end (no pun intended). Next time be sure to tell him not so deep or hard or whatever is making you uncomfortable. Try a different position and always be sure to use water based lubricant and lots of it combined with a little water. Now to your present problem... Preparation H applied inside and out will fix you up in no time. It contains a numbing agent and something for swelling. Just follow the instructions on the package. Ibuprofen for the pain and it's an anti-inflammatory to help with swelling.
there is a numbing cream and sprays avaliable to use that can help with the soreness..check out your local drug store for that..also check out a adult sex store they sell lots of creams, lube and stuff that have numbing stuff in it so it wont hurt you.
my advice? take a long hot bath, some tylenol advil ect.
you should be careful though because anal sex can be harmful to your organs.
would you do it again? how old are you? the reason for my asking is i want or wanted(after reading this) to have anal sex w/ my gf. if it will hurt her this bad then i wont do it. email back please. Excedrin should help.