Why am i in so much pain after sex?!
Question: Ok. first on. Im engaged. Were being safe. so please dot leture me.
Ive been having sex for two months. ive only ever been with one guy. Well 3 weeks ago, we were having sex and when i got home half an hour later i started bleeding and it didnt stop for an hour. But i had no pain. Recently ( in the past 2 weeks) my vagina is feeling really raw after we do it. like it doesnt burn to pee. but if the pee gets on my v a g it burns. I dont know why id be in so much pain. The inside of my thing right next to my vagina also hurts. We used to be able to d oit rough and what not. now if he goes to hard or too far in it makes me sick. This past week everytime we do it i want to throw up after wards. Any clues? preggo?
Answers: Ok. first on. Im engaged. Were being safe. so please dot leture me.
Ive been having sex for two months. ive only ever been with one guy. Well 3 weeks ago, we were having sex and when i got home half an hour later i started bleeding and it didnt stop for an hour. But i had no pain. Recently ( in the past 2 weeks) my vagina is feeling really raw after we do it. like it doesnt burn to pee. but if the pee gets on my v a g it burns. I dont know why id be in so much pain. The inside of my thing right next to my vagina also hurts. We used to be able to d oit rough and what not. now if he goes to hard or too far in it makes me sick. This past week everytime we do it i want to throw up after wards. Any clues? preggo?
It's not uncommon for sex to stimulate you to have your period, or to cause a lot of heavy spotting, especially if he ejaculates inside you (and you aren't using a condom). The reason for this is because semen contains a lot of a hormone called prostaglandin, which can kick-start some biological functions if they're close to happening anyway, including menstruation (and, interestingly enough, labor!).
It's not uncommon for women to feel some rawness or irritation after sex, especially if it lasts a long time or is kind of rough, or if his penis is on the larger side and you're on the smaller side. To help with this, take it slowly at first so you are sure that your vagina has gotten fully prepared for sex. And then use some safe lubrication to keep things smooth down there. I like water-based lubes because they don't feel all weird and sticky on your hands after you apply them, but there are all kinds out there that are safe to use for sex. Give some a try and see what you like. The burning when you pee is from the urine coming in contact with the irritated skin.
I have no idea what you're talking about when you say "the inside of my thing right next to my vagina." Are you talking about your urethra, the place where the urine comes from? Or your anus, where the poop comes from? Or are you actually talking about your vagina? A lot of women think that "vagina" means the outer part that you can see with a mirror, but really the vagina is the inner passage that leads from your uterus to the outside of your body. The vulva is the exterior "decorations" that you can see easily. If you mean that the inside of your vagina hurts, then it could be from trauma from rough sex, or it could be that you have something else going on like a lesion from an illness. I'd see the doctor if that doesn't clear up after you give your body a rest for several days.
Nausea is probably from nerves, I'd guess. If you're worried that sex will hurt, you'll probably be all freaked out and tense. Tension often makes me feel like I have to throw up.
Tell your fiance that you need to slow things down and take it easier at the beginning of sex, and use some lubrication, because you've been having some discomfort from sex.
foreplay! women need time to "rearrange". this happens during arrousal. you need to be able to accomodate him, and self lube.
Sound like you are too dry.
You have been rubbed raw.
My wife had that problem with the warming lube. You the regular
Use a lot of lubriaction! Also, take it easy. Sometimes you can get tears in your vagina from having sex/foreplay. If it really bothers you, go speak to your gyno.