Sex drive problem?!
Question: ok heres the thing...
Im a 25yo female, with a fantastic bf.
problem is my sex drive is gone, yes i work alot...
i miss him every minute i am away from him and can not wait to be back in his arms. the sex is great just no drive for it!
what the hell is happening to me? am i old b4 my time?
Answers: ok heres the thing...
Im a 25yo female, with a fantastic bf.
problem is my sex drive is gone, yes i work alot...
i miss him every minute i am away from him and can not wait to be back in his arms. the sex is great just no drive for it!
what the hell is happening to me? am i old b4 my time?
Hi, are you on BC or any medications that might get your libido down? I have been there and done that and have had NO sex drive whatsoever. It wasn't til a friend told me about Hersolution which is a natural enhancement made for us. It's great and really works to boost the sex drive. Read up about it at herenhancement.com where at the time I saved money on it. I used to be on BC and tried the hersolution gel that also worked amazing. I just didn't want to overload on the pills and capsules throughout the day. Good luck in rebuilding your sex drive.
Naw, have you tried roll playing?
Tell him to try slow roasting his woman. Bubble bath together or a massage anything to get you totally relaxed. Sometiems it just takes a while to get us ladies in the mood. From experience sometimes I don't get in the mood until we are actually all ready having sex. Doesn't happen often, but it does happen. Hope that helped.
i think u should try some new things.. to make it more interesting and exciting...
Maybe just all the stress you're under from other things in your life (ie. work) is not condusive to wanting to be intimate. Also, if you're on the pill, some studies say that it may decrease your sex drive, so that's another factor you might wanna look into. Good luck!
& by the way, you shouldn't be too shy to role play. It opens up a whole world of possibilities, plus it's really exciting. You shouldn't be shy/embarassed in front of your boyfriend! Try it!
You might just be doing it with the wrong person. You need someone new as much as I hate to say it. I have a gf who is 27 and she left a guy she had been with for 4 years, one she was going to marry because she realized that she wasn't even slightly interested in him anymore in a sexual way even though it wasn't bad sex and he was stable and rich and had a house and could provide everything for her..... she just felt excitement with me and no longer with him and she had sex for the first time in months when we copulated.
We are going on two years now and do it once or twice every day. Someone being great and great in bed shouldn't be a determinant as to if you like them, if you like them the proper amount then it will not get boring. It sucks to have to leave someone who is wonderful but if they can't do it for you then they are not for you.
Hello,
Let me ask you some questions to help you analyze the cause of your problem and eventually solve it.
1. Are you/do you/have you--
# depressed?
# stressed or fatigued?
# experienced sexual assault, trauma, or neglect?
# body image issue?
# attracted to someone aside from your bf?
# experiencing sexual performance anxiety?
If you answered yes, then your lowered sex drive or libido is caused psychologically.
2. Are you/do you/have you--
# underweight/malnourished/severely obese?
# take hormonal contraception, SSRIs and other antidepressants, and beta blockers?
# experiencing irregular menstrual cycles?
If you answered yes, then your lowered sex drive or libido is caused physically.
Now, left unsolved decreased libido can obviously affect can your relationship with your fantastic bf. That's sad and we do not want that to happen.
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