This is about sex.?!
Question: ok well i really just want to have sex but my problem is well im only 13 and i really dont want to get pregnant at my age cause everyone would call me a slut and i dont want that but like i really want to though and i know im ready and all of that jazz but like yea. so what do you think i should do.
Answers: ok well i really just want to have sex but my problem is well im only 13 and i really dont want to get pregnant at my age cause everyone would call me a slut and i dont want that but like i really want to though and i know im ready and all of that jazz but like yea. so what do you think i should do.
I lost my virginity when I thought I was ready--close to your age--but I wish I had waited. I think you will too. If you have the self-control to wait DO IT! I PROMISE you will be glad you did. Even if you just put it off a few years you'll be glad. It's better when you are oldenu will be with someone more experienced as well.
If you decide not to wait--please please please take some kind of birth control. Your life will be put on hold for a LONG time if you get pregnant. No fun friday nights or time alone. No time to watch a movie and generally no help from the father. Babies are cute when they're someone elses. Trust me--mine will be a year old next week and JUST started sleeping all night this week.
Don't forget about STDs! Just because a guy says he's a virgin it doesn't mean he is. PLUS oral sex can spread some STDs so be very careful!
Be smart about this. Take care of yourself and respect yourself no matter what your choice.
wear a condom. and 13 is alittle young to have sex yet, that's what i think.
if you have sex you will be called a slut even if you dont get pregnant. you arent ready to handle a child and there is no way to be 100% sure you wont get pregnant. i suggest masterbating or mutual masterbation but please save sex for a much later time.
Just from reading that I really don't think you're mature enough to have sex.
You don't just run around screwing people because you want to have sex. That IS slutty.
Wait until you're in love. And not so immature.
You need to talk to your parents! If you cant hold a legitimate conversation about sex with your parents then you ARE NOT ready. Hope this helps.
oh honey, you're way way too young to be having sex. People won't only call you a slut if you get pregnant, but if just one person finds out at school, EVERYONE will call you a slut. If you are sure that having sex is what you want to do. go to Planned Parenthood, and get on birth control. If you don't have any sort of income, it will be free to you. Also, make sure to stock up on condoms. Because, you are right, you don't want to be pregnant at 13, you have your ENTIRE life ahead of you.
I hope you make a wise decision, but either way, good luck
You're way too young...Wait till you reach at least 16 yrs old, so you can actually take the time to think about it. Sex is a big decision and requires a lot of thought and committment. You can go different routes, masturbation, toys, mutual masturbation (still to young but it is safer)....
Think before you do anything....
It's natural to want to have sex - but it isn't always a good idea. If you don't have anyone to have sex with, you really should wait.
Wait a few years. I knw it's hard, but you'll thank yourself later.
If you decide not to wait, just make sure to keep it safe...
dont have sex yet ur only 12
even if you do think that you're sure... you're WAY too young to even be thinking about sex... and they're is never a 100% assurance that you wont get pregnant... the only way you CAN be 100% sure is just not having sex... as you know..
oh yeah... and if you do decide to lose it... ( please don't) make SURE that it's a person that you REALLY love and that you're POSITIVE he won't leave you right after you give it up to him... you know? (hit it and quit it... it's a no no.. )
and you can never be really sure that he won't do that... even if you guys have been together for like... a year or whatever.. you never really know..
Around 6million sp3rm are produced a day by a man, and even when you do it, and he wears a condom, there's a chance that ONE of those 6million sp3rm can escape the condom and get inside you. wait. it's just hormones. you know you can wait, so do it. im 14.
Well, there is one way you can have sex but you might not like it but you well be having sex. have it with another girl 1 way you wont get pregnet and you can fingure inside of using a guys dick just spended a night at a girlfreinds house and you to do it sorry if it sounds grouse but you well be having sex
ps i am a girl 14 but i do not do this I DO NOT DO THIS IT IS JUST A SUGESTION!!!!
People will still call you a slut because 13 year old kids do not have sex.
If you're that horny, masturbate yourself. It will be safer. You won't get pregnant nor get HIV and die before you're 21.
You're not ready to have sex. Trust me.
i was 16, and I wasn't ready. I kept thinking I was afterwards too, then I was a slut. Not cool. I wish I had waited for my husband. (If you do it, and you marry someone else down the road, you'll realize how special that kind of thing is, even if you're not his first either). Do use condoms, birth control, spermicide, etc if you decide to do it. If you don't that's awesome! It may seem lame that you don't to your friends, but at least you are safe, std free and not pregnant.
no sweetheart u need to wait, u THINK you're ready but you're not, emotions are tied to doing that at gettin your heart broken at too young of an age is too mature for you to handle. tho i dont know u, but it takes a man to know the anatomy of a girl to do it to where it does hurt with his penetration; dang at least know the boy for a long while b4 u give him your virginity; remember you'll never get it back and who knows the boy may want you for that one thing and voiila...you're took!
u ar ea slut.
do not have sex if the guys wear a condom while having sex then your pregnent and your soo so so young ..