Most pain free way to lose your virginity? maturity please no immature answers?!
Question: ok me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year and we talked about having sex. he knows that im a virgin and we have taked about what the plan would be if i got pregnant. im on birth control and he always uses a condom plus he has been tested. i was just wondering if u know of any positions that would make losing my virginity less painful. btw he is about 2.5 inches wide and 8 inches long. and yes we are both old enough to be having sex.
Answers: ok me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year and we talked about having sex. he knows that im a virgin and we have taked about what the plan would be if i got pregnant. im on birth control and he always uses a condom plus he has been tested. i was just wondering if u know of any positions that would make losing my virginity less painful. btw he is about 2.5 inches wide and 8 inches long. and yes we are both old enough to be having sex.
The key is relaxation. Pain or discomfort hurts most when the vaginal walls are tense. The best way to keep this from happening, is by taking your time. Sex is not a race. The longer it takes, the better it is. Especially if it's your first time. There will be plenty of time for quickies when you have a bit more experiance. Engage in lots of foreplay...touching, kissing, massage. Also, use lube...especially if you are going to be using condoms. When it comes to him entering you for the first time, slow and steady is best. He may not get all the way in on the first attempt...that's ok.
Make a big deal out of giving your virginity to him. Plan a nice romantic dinner, maybe a bubble bath....use your immagination. Most of all, have fun.?
Very slow foreplay!
I agree with the slow foreplay. Also hight suggest lubrication... the more the better since any dryness could make it very painfull. Also, you may want to try woman on top so that you can control how fast and deep you are penetrated. Good luck! Sounds like you have taken all the necessary precautions. Kudos to being more responsible than most!
Take it very slowly. Buy lots of lube, and use it. Having an orgasm before could help, and you will be wider then. It may even then hurt a bit, but it's something that every girl will have to go through at some point, so I suggest if you're serious about it just to take the pain for a little bit. Have fun and be safe!
honestly there is no postions that like make you not hurt
sometimes, it doesnt the first time
it just depends how wide you are and how wide he is..
there is no painless way hunny
i agree, also, with the foreplay.
but considering hes that big, its gonna hurt either way. just take it slow the first few times.
LOADS of foreplay, LOADS of lube, and YOU get on top to control how fast or slow you go.
Make sure he's being gentle, too!
have fun. ;)
you do realize you could get HIV, HERPES, and AIDS dont you? what if you get pregnant? are you prepared to look after a baby? what if you and your bf breakup? heartache? abortion is terrible, aren't you glad your mom didn't abort you? he doesn't love you, he LUSTS you! all he wants you for is sex! condoms might not get you pregnant, but its scientifically proven that they don't prevent STDs!
Girth is measure around, not across. Average is 4.5 to 5.5 inches. The depth of your vagina is 4 to 6 or 7 inches, so don't let him try to go all the way in.
Relaxing, foreplay, (oral sex, more foreplay