Can a G-spot go away?!
Question: before, my bf was able to get my g-spot almost everytime. then we had a bout of rough sex, and after i healed, he couldnt get it anymore. we werent doing anything different i dont think. before, he was just able to get it, and now it wont work. sometimes it might happen, but it just goes away after a few seconds. i was wondering if it is possible for a woman's g-spot to be permanently damaged, or if it comes and goes, or if it goes its gone. if i hurt myself, is there a way to fix it? is there a way to get it back? any techniques?
Answers: before, my bf was able to get my g-spot almost everytime. then we had a bout of rough sex, and after i healed, he couldnt get it anymore. we werent doing anything different i dont think. before, he was just able to get it, and now it wont work. sometimes it might happen, but it just goes away after a few seconds. i was wondering if it is possible for a woman's g-spot to be permanently damaged, or if it comes and goes, or if it goes its gone. if i hurt myself, is there a way to fix it? is there a way to get it back? any techniques?
Was your boyfriend re-looking at the right place?
Anyways, a 1982 book titled The G-Spot, and Other Recent Discoveries about Human Sexuality offers this technique, which seems unromantic at first but will help:
Because the spot is so hard to find while you're lying on your back, and because it's so closely associated with the urinary function, let your boyfriend explore you while seated on a toilet. (Or you do it yourself)
After voiding your bladder, poke around the upper front wall of the vagina, from the cervix to the back side of the pubic bone, applying firm pressure in the direction of the navel. Eventually you should find an unusually sensitive spot and feel as though you need to urinate again. Go ahead and try. If you were successful in emptying your bladder completely, you won't be able to, but in any case press on.
The spot will probably swell and harden, feeling something like a small almond or a lima bean beneath the wall surface, and the sensations you feel may progress from the eliminative to the sexual. Paydirt. You can now experiment with your new toy in much the same way you did when you discovered your clitoris.
Hope this helps.
no its there for life. try squating on him, up down up down and then drop youself on him and move it around. he'll hit it ?
I dont think you lost it,,,, stay away from sex for a week, it will come back...
Sounds like some people who are answering this question are possible nympho's.
Here's your case as you already know. #1 you should already know that a womans peak is in her late 30's-early 50's.
#2 You are probably too young in the first place to be having sex.
#3 the reason your actually loosing your pleasure point is because of under developement of the contacting formative.
#4 I'm glad that you and your B/F are having fun, but it should wait until marriage which is why they highly recommend waiting until 22-25. And then the post is completed.
#5 You can overlook the current problem, and just bounce around on him putting even more contact on your contact until it continues to not work even more.
#6 at your current rate, following that other girls advise, you won't be able to be pleased at all very well when in your 30's unless you use a battery operated device.
#7 there is an absolute reason, why the body takes time to heal, grow, enhance, conform, precision obsolition and focus on the sexual enhancements of life.
You just need to slow down, or get a toy, or another guy without the high needs for sex, good chance you're already being used for a sex toy and just don't know it.
- Its your life so ^*^^(*^(*&&^$%*&(
-Doc Belkin
Completely ignore the answer above mine! Um yeah you should try taking command and see if you can make it happen, then you'll know what to do in the future.