Embarresing question.. Advice please..?!
Question: Im 14 years old, and alot of girls my age do matrubate. Ive tried a few times, and ive used things as well but never seem to orgasm. It just hurts and feels strange. People say it feels nice, but i never feel any sort of pleasure. I havent started my period. Whats up?
Answers: Im 14 years old, and alot of girls my age do matrubate. Ive tried a few times, and ive used things as well but never seem to orgasm. It just hurts and feels strange. People say it feels nice, but i never feel any sort of pleasure. I havent started my period. Whats up?
You know what, I think masturbating by yourself is just like tickling yourself. If someone else tickles you...it tickles right?? I think it's the same thing with masturbating.
I've tried it...at first it didn't work for me AT ALL..it hurt and stuff like that.
Just relax when you do it and get in the "mental state". Think about something sexual or "paint a picture" in your mind. That should help you.
maybe your doing it wrong?
check the net and see if you can find out how to reach orgasm, everyone has their own way of reaching orgasm
same here, hopefully someone will really answer this.
dont do nothing you dont like no matter what it is!!!!
TINY TOT, CONCENTRATE ON UR STUDY AND FORGET ABOUT MASTURBATING OR ANYTHING, ITS NOT YOUR TIME NOW, BE A GOOD GIRL OK???
AND WHEN THE TIME WILL COME YOU WILL ALREADY LOVE AND GET WHAT YOU WANT, \M/
Go slow with yourself, you might be a little "hard"on yourself :) It takes women a lot longer than it takes men to get the hang of self pleasure.
If your not in the mood, why try to do it at all?
You just need to experiment and see what feels good for you. Try different methods, like using your hands, rubbing (clothed!) against a pillow, using the water from the shower head, or whatever floats your boat. As for not achieving an orgasm - don't worry about that! You're still young, and many women don't have orgasms until they're older.
And hey - if it doesn't feel good, don't do it! There's no rule that says you HAVE to masturbate.
well honey thats just a sign that your body is saying that you aren't ready. once you get your period, and you start using tampons, you will be used to having something up there and it will give you more pleasure. If i were you i'd just wait it out. If you keep forcing things into your body, and your body isn't ready to accept them, then you will really hurt yourself.
good luck sweetie and i hope i helped :) xo
i was the same way. one, try stimulating your clitoris if you know where that is. ie: rubbing.
two, if you keep masturbating by fingering yourself and putting other stuff up there,it just takes time to get used to
and three, im not saying go fool around with anyone haha but it feels much better from a guy and makes you like it a lot more
take care!:)
Having you period - and having an orgasm has nothing to do with each other.
Masturbation is not something you do... because other people like it. It's something that you have to be motivated to do... for your own pleasure.
I don't know HOW you're doing it... so I can't comment as to if you're doing thinks that I know to be successful with other women...
And girls are different... even between themselves. Sometime different things are required to achieve orgasm.
One thing that is a LITTLE SCARY - you are less likely to orgasm with a partner (WHEN YOU'RE READY) if you are not successful on your own...
Be gentle with yourself!
and good luck
Please try and try again. You will surely find out the sensitive part.
don't be embarrassed i really got off on your question
your not ready yet...your body will let you know..be patient
being 14. you most likely ARE ready. alot of girls dont get off with shuving there fingers up themselves, and its usually quite hard at first to even get your fingers in the hole.
i definanly recommend rubbing your clit, with thin underware on.
Maybe you just dont feel good doing it that way. I personally dont like fingering so I just play with my clit. Its also alot easier to enjoy something if your thinking about someone/thing you like or just not thinking about it. If you were worrying that you havent orgasmed yet while you were doing it then you were prob. just making things harder for yourself. I started doing it as stress relief when I was younger so just relax and experiment.....there are diffrent ways to do it and everybody has their own. Good luck. Oh and I dont think starting your period has anything to do with it. Im very irregular but I orgasm 9 times out of ten....
Perhaps you may have to wait for some more time to get regular periods, psychologically prepared, physically developed, and get attracted by males, to realize a female orgasm!!
So you may not bother much about orgasm etc., now at this age itself when even your periods have not yet been regularized, which is a clear indication that your body also does not appear to have prepared. You may now concentrate in all other female activities in which you are interested.