How can I have an orgasm when he's on top?!
Question: It's no problem when I'm on top. That's normal, right? But when I'm on bottom, it's never happened. It feels AWESOME, but I just doesn't happen. Is this typical? Is this possible when I'm on bottom?
Same when he's coming in from behind... I go wild, but no orgasm.
Answers: It's no problem when I'm on top. That's normal, right? But when I'm on bottom, it's never happened. It feels AWESOME, but I just doesn't happen. Is this typical? Is this possible when I'm on bottom?
Same when he's coming in from behind... I go wild, but no orgasm.
When you are on top you are in control of the motions that are bringing you off. That is normal. When you are on the bottom you are not in control and it is harder to orgasm. That is normal too.
Two things: Either make sure that you finish on top all of the time or, through sounds or touch, direct your partner into "your zone" when he's on top. Perhaps also, you can help in the motion department while you're down there. Or go ahead and slip a finger over your love button (who cares? go for it!). Just one thing: there is nothing wrong with you being only able to orgasm one way. Switch it up only if you think you must.
Let me try...(this was too easy)
Use your fingers and help yourself out! =)
haha yeah u gotta just figure it out its different for everyone
Maybe you need another guy. Not being sarcastic, but maybe you just don't match up.
sounds phycologicol....... try bottom or behind then work your way to the top.
Get a pillow under your rear so it works the same angle of the dangle that you like on top.
It's really all a matter of angles and your body. Ask him to move in different ways, or try other positions. Everybody's body is different and everybody likes different things. Just try new stuff.
If that doesn't work, try introducing a small toy (like a clitoral stimulator) into your sex life.
Try to move your hips up and down to match his. It's a plus if you are close enough to be able to rub your clit on his tummy while you are moving your hips up and down.
Are you a grinder?
If he's behind, have him reach around and massage your "button".
When he's on top, have him reach under, grab your "bottom" and grind your "button" with his pelvis...
Put a pillow beneath you so your pelvis is tilted upward. (increases chances of him hitting your g-spot) Then, put your hand on your pubic region and pull upward. (exposes the clitoris area)
Have him press hard with his pelvis and thrust inwards and upwards. By press hard I mean that he stays against you, like grinding. It seems that if done correctly this will stimulate the the clitoris and g-spot. Good luck.