Im scared to have sex!?!
Question: i have been wanting to have sex for a while now. And im with this great guy that i would love to lose my virginity to. but im scared. like im scared that if i do ill get pregnant. Like i know their is condoms and birth control. But is there a way ic an still get pregnant if im on birth control and he wears a condom?
Answers: i have been wanting to have sex for a while now. And im with this great guy that i would love to lose my virginity to. but im scared. like im scared that if i do ill get pregnant. Like i know their is condoms and birth control. But is there a way ic an still get pregnant if im on birth control and he wears a condom?
First of all, be calm! Theres nothing wrong in having sex and that too, if you are so knowledgeable about the protections, i dont think anything would go wrong. Dont worry, you wont get pregnant if you would use a condom or something. Dont worry about it and just feel it. Its a great feeling so go ahead and enjoy. Just be a bit careful if its your 1st time. Dats all! Take care & have a lovely time.
there is always a slight chance you can get pregnant with any type of birth control but it is very unlikely. And if you are scared to have sex, its probably not the time.
I was terrified to have sex for the first time and I was 19....we were married though and it was our honey moon. LOL So....it is very nerve racking.... one thing I would suggest is if your sure he's the one, then just relaxe....I know this sounds wierd but you might want to do some gentle stretching of the vagina with your (very clean) fingers to get yourself prepared... I know for me it was very very painful to the point I thought something was wrong.... We actually had to wait a couple days and slowly stretch me out before it was comfortable. But as far as birth control, YES you can get pregnant on it but it's usually very rare. I'm sure that if you are on it and your bf is wearing a condom you'll be fine. I hope you make the right choice and just relaxe if you're stressed it will make it all worse! Good luck
if your scared your not ready.