Hey i have a guy problem. please read this and help me?!
Question: well, I'm 14 and I have never had a real boyfriend. I"M NOT UGLY! I just dont know how to flirt and how to be a real girl with a guy. I need a boyfriend. I want somebody in my life. I need tips on boys and stuff. I think its because of my attatude with boys. I'm not really nice and i dont makefor converstions. I do talk to boys and i am friends that are boys. but i need a bf!
please help me.
Caitlyn<33
Answers: well, I'm 14 and I have never had a real boyfriend. I"M NOT UGLY! I just dont know how to flirt and how to be a real girl with a guy. I need a boyfriend. I want somebody in my life. I need tips on boys and stuff. I think its because of my attatude with boys. I'm not really nice and i dont makefor converstions. I do talk to boys and i am friends that are boys. but i need a bf!
please help me.
Caitlyn<33
When you flit it comes naturally, sometimes you don't even notice your flirting. You start flirting with a guy when you like him. When you find the right guy you'll flirt with him automatically, even if you don't talk to him (eye contact/flirting with eyes). Just cause your mean doesn't mean they don't like you. Some guys like the girls that are mean to them. They're just shy to ask you out. At this time guys aren't ready for "real" relationships. They get scared. So don't worry. I suggest you notice older guys (15,16) They're more mature then the other guys who just fool around and mess with you. You should get to know a person who your conferable with so it won't be hard to make conversation.
if oyu dont know how to talk to them then you dont need a bf. it all comes naturally and as you can see, you're not ready.
you really shouldn't worry yet, but if you want a boyfriend then you need to flirt with guys. stare at them and smile at them. do it daily and if you are as hot as you say you are, they will eventually ask you out.
Change your attitude and you'll shine brighter than a stttaaarr ! =D
yeah you maight not be ready...trust me you have plenty of time it took me a while. this will sound dumb but be yourself...it will work better in the long run. you don't need a bf though. just hang in there someone will come along
Give it a couple of years. No need to be in a rush. You are only 14. You'll get it.
Kay, well I'm 14 also, is a boyfriend really something you want? Or is it just cool cuz everyone else has one? Be yourself and def remember that in high school guys chase the girls who never were really "involved" if ya know what I mean!
Don't worry. Just find a boy that is more interested in you then in sex and try (i know how hard this can be..) to strike up conversation. Music usually works - if you have iPods swap them or talk about favorite bands and stuff. Don't be too random though, haha.
Also I started wearing makeup when I was fourteen about and the orange line around the jaw isn't attractive. Nor is smudged eyeliner.
Try just mascara - it looks good.
I'm 18 and I haven't had a boyfriend. I'm not worried about it. You shouldn't be worried either. It will happen. Don't stress.