Uhm...answer me please.?!


Question: ok. so i just lost my virginity to my boyfriend, and we do that a few times in a week. am i supposed to go to a gyno or something?? im just sooo scared that they'll tell my mom. she's gonna kick me out of the house if she finds out i'm not a virgin. i dont know what to do!!!

help, please??


Answers: ok. so i just lost my virginity to my boyfriend, and we do that a few times in a week. am i supposed to go to a gyno or something?? im just sooo scared that they'll tell my mom. she's gonna kick me out of the house if she finds out i'm not a virgin. i dont know what to do!!!

help, please??

Okay, one thing you should do is talk to your doctor. As long as you aren't in any danger, what you tell your doctor is completely confidential. They can tell you everything about safe sex, how to tell if you are pregnant, and all that stuff even a mom wouldn't know best for. If you can drive for yourself, arrange an appointment yourself, but if not.. i'd wait until your next checkup.

If you feel the same as you always have, just more pleasured =], then you have nothing to be worried about.

That's not good. Why'd you do it if your mom would kick you out of the house if she finds out?
Cause, you know. She will find out eventually..

I don't know what they do in the U.S but in Canada, everything between you and your doctor (and other health care professionals if they need to be involved) should be kept confidential. It's the law.
It's not as if they will go out and call your mom about this. This is strictly you and your doctor's business.
You can just go to a doctor and yet a check-up anyway, so they can get an assessment of your whole physical body. You can also address your concerns.

No, they won't tell your mum. You shouldn't be having sex if you have to keep it a secret from your parents.

depends on what state u live in if they tell your mom. Most states health deopts are confidential and pay are based on income Yes you definitely need to see a gyno, to make sure everything is healthy and take the necessary precautions (birth control, condoms... which I hope you used already).

they cant tell your mom, dr paitent confidentiality...just tell your mom you dont want her in the room when you are examined cause you are embarrassed and then talk to the dr and let him know you are sexually active and you dont want your mom to know but maybe he can suggest that you get on birth control for regulate your periods.

well, the doctors aren't supposed to tell your parents if you don't want them to. it's usually just between you and your doctor. i would go to a doctor just to make sure that everything is alright. as long as you are being safe with everything, you should be good. i hope this helps, good luck. :)

ok, u know that it was wrong and I think the other answerers have already given you enough critisism so that u get the picture, bad choice. But I'm gona help you. Actually they won't tell your mother becaue of the rule DOctor, Patient confidentiaality. Which basically means they can't tell anyone unless they have your permission. Yes you should go to the gyno.

you absolutely NEED to go to the doctor now. they won't tell your mother you are sexually active, but more than likely, she will find out eventually. why would you make such a huge decision when you know what her reaction will be? you need to stop having sex if you are that scared of being kicked out (i'm assuming you are underage, as well), and you definitely need to see a doctor.

If you're still living with your mother...and she would object to you losing your virginity, guess what? You did the wrong thing.

Why don't you consider other peoples' situations and feelings, for once in your life, and stop looking out only for your own pleasures.





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