I am a women and I cannot stop watching porn--masterbating. How can I stop doing!


Question: When I get bored, I watch porn and masterbate--late at night. I think it's really weird, since I am a female. I have tried to stop watching porn. However, I cannot prevent myself from downloading (or watching DVD's) porn. What is wrong with me? I thought men usually are the ones who like porn?


Answers: When I get bored, I watch porn and masterbate--late at night. I think it's really weird, since I am a female. I have tried to stop watching porn. However, I cannot prevent myself from downloading (or watching DVD's) porn. What is wrong with me? I thought men usually are the ones who like porn?

It's a common misconception that only men like porn. The truth is that there are PLENTY of women out there who enjoy it. I have some kind of bad news for you. I've been there, and I can honestly say, you'll probably never go back to the way you were before you discovered it. You will always be tempted by it. I've heard that overcoming a porn addiction is harder than overcoming a heroine addiction, simply because it is so accessible.

Be honest: Do you feel that it is interfering with your relationships? Are you married (your husband needs to know, if you are).

I'm sorry you are struggling with this. I really have no good advice for you, other than to get rid of your internet connection and don't go out and buy dvds. But I know that that's not always practical, nor realistic. You have to make a choice. An accountability partner could help, but you have to be willing to be honest and open with them.

im a a guy... i know many girls that do the exact same thing as you. nothing wrong with you, you might wanna consider sex

Nothing wrong with you many women do it they are just scared to admit it. It is a great way to relieve stress and you should not worry about stopping or feeling bad about doing it.

Nothing's wrong with you. Women are very visual and it's exciting to see other people some times. And masturbating is a healthy thing. You should be proud that you know what you want and you're able to give it to yourself when no one else can.

maybe your sexual with out
or your mate isnt taking care of this
if no reason you could have a sexual problem
seek Dr. advice and you might go to church and find God he great at helping us through things

Spend more time writing down all the things you enjoy or would enjoy doing and start doing them. You need a change and possibly a more energetic man. LOL! Pleasing yourself sexually is ok as long as you don't become obsessed to the point where there is nothing else in your life. We all need a balance and you can talk with God about it. There is nothing he hasn't heard from the rest of us. You won't shock or disturb him. He is there to help us through obsessive behaviors and such. I know he wants you to have a life outside of that and will help you if you will help yourself by looking for it and acting toward it.

Theres nothing wrong with that at all, i do it daily and i dnt feel i have a problem, just enjoy yourself and dont worry what eveyone else thinks. my guy has no problems with it what so ever

how old are you? i do exactly the same thing as you!

i do it cause my boyfriend has given me such a high sex drive and he is away and im really horny!

Women enjoy porn too. I know I do. But it can become addictive and become a problem. Talk to a therapist if you feel it is interfering with your everyday life.

You're not abnormal or perverted. Most women are just afraid to admit that they watch porn and/or masterbate. Guys are just more open about it.

I understand how you feel. Does it make you feel dirty or embarrassed afterwards? I think the best thing is to just realize that you're not wrong or weird for doing it and to just let go. Do whatever you want and don't be ashamed of it.

However, if you'd really like to stop, you could start reading romance novels or other erotica. Or you could just really set your mind to quitting- maybe by throwing out your DVDs.

good luck.

Theres nothing wrong with you, i love porn to.i think most healthy women would be liers if they said they didnt like it abit.

I was the same way. I almost felt ashamed but u need support if u want to stop. And u may decide to cut down instead of stopping depending on how u feel about yourself after. Hell masturbating is fun but its all in your mind and how you feel

What does gender have to do with it?

It's actually a myth that one gender likes porn while the other doesn't like it -- there are guys who hate porn, just like there are women who like it.

Do whatever the hell you want, without worrying whether women "like it" or not. You're a woman, and you like it, so that must mean that those stereotypes aren't accurate.

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