Obsession help?!?!
Question: i am obssseed with the idea of getting pregnant, and getting married. i try not to be. Im 21 and in a long term relationship. my partner and i want to get married in the next few years but we dont have the money and im still at uni but i keep thinking about being pregnant all the time, if my periods a day late i think maybe i am and secretly im happy but i know it would be totally inconvinient to have a child - im not ready but i cant get it out of my head. My best friend told me yesterday shes expecting her 3rd (shes 40) and im really jealous - im excited for her but the idea of being pregnant is something i want really badly - its gonna be at least 3 or 4 years before it comes true - how can i stop obsessing over it and get on with my life. Is it normal to be this broody? im scared im gonna do something stupid and end up with a baby before im ready - they are a big responsibility - i know that but its more about the being pregnant than the baby!! i love kids but i want a bump!!!
Answers: i am obssseed with the idea of getting pregnant, and getting married. i try not to be. Im 21 and in a long term relationship. my partner and i want to get married in the next few years but we dont have the money and im still at uni but i keep thinking about being pregnant all the time, if my periods a day late i think maybe i am and secretly im happy but i know it would be totally inconvinient to have a child - im not ready but i cant get it out of my head. My best friend told me yesterday shes expecting her 3rd (shes 40) and im really jealous - im excited for her but the idea of being pregnant is something i want really badly - its gonna be at least 3 or 4 years before it comes true - how can i stop obsessing over it and get on with my life. Is it normal to be this broody? im scared im gonna do something stupid and end up with a baby before im ready - they are a big responsibility - i know that but its more about the being pregnant than the baby!! i love kids but i want a bump!!!
I'm 22 and I have been married for 4 years. Me and my hubby don't have any kids yet. I would like to have a kid too someday but I know that I am too young. Right now for me the timing isn't right. Me and my hubby are both in school right now. We both have jobs but all of our money goes on bills and there is none left over. I want my kids to have a good life. I would like to be a stay at home mom someday. Now days more and more women are waiting until they get older to have kids so they can focus on their marriage and careers. Trust me there is no rush to have children and you have plenty of time.
I am always wondering what my kids will look like and what I will look like pregnant, and how fun it would be to paint the child's room and pick out all the cute clothes. But I know that I am not ready now and a child can wait. I think these feelings are all about being a women, we were made to have babies. But there is a time for everything.
I would try to focus more on school, and work. And also now is a good time to take vacations and travel with just you and your soon to be husband. Enjoy this time as much as you can because once you have a baby its for the rest of your life and you will never get this time back, until your old and retired, and then of course there is grand kids. So I would definitely wait and get on a good form of birth control until your both ready for children. Don't you want to be excited when announcing your pregnancy? You don't want to be scared and uncomfortable. So just wait.
See a doctor.
heres an idea. if you know someone who has baby ask if you could baby sit over night guarantee you will not want one after that. you really sound like you are not ready trust me they are more work thn you could ever imagine (mother of 3) wait until you are a little older yuo are still really young, you should just enjoy life right now and find out who you are before you start thinking about children
you love kids. make some.
You may have Obsessive Compulsive disorder. You should be asking this question in mental health and also i would see a psychiatrist.
don't do something you'll regret, let it happen when its right don't be in such a rush ...my daughter decided to have a baby now i have a grandson who is very sick and will be for the rest of his life no matter how long that is, really think hard babysitting is not the same as 24/7