WHATS IT LIKE ON YOUR FIRST TIME...? please help?!


Question: Okay so before anybody says anything im not just another teenager whos all about sex me && my boyfriend decided to have sex for the first time im a virgin hes done it with one girl && i just wanna know how its gonna go...is it gonna hurt if ive used tampons before or masturbated before? is there anything to make it hurt less?

THANKS!!


Answers: Okay so before anybody says anything im not just another teenager whos all about sex me && my boyfriend decided to have sex for the first time im a virgin hes done it with one girl && i just wanna know how its gonna go...is it gonna hurt if ive used tampons before or masturbated before? is there anything to make it hurt less?

THANKS!!

Use extra lubrication along with a lubricated condom. Your spit actually works very nicely. Then make sure he goes slowly and doesn't just ram into you. The only reasons why it would hurt is if he just rams himself into you, is really well endowed, you don't use lube, or you have a shallow vagina.

So just take it easy and go slow. Make sure you communicate with your partner and tell him what you like and don't like. It will probably feel pretty good. But I imagine without any foreplay or clitoral stimulation you won't orgasm.

But some people are different. Some girls think sex is over rated, some really love it.

When it does hurt, it's because your hymen is intact. Just think of it as the shrink wrap on your vagina. If it's been tampered with before, it'll be less painful.

ITS GONNA FEEL GR8! =-D

You need to be very relaxed. If you are anxious, it might be very, very painful. Communicate clearly with your boyfriend to go slow, and to be sensitive to how you're feeling. As long as you're wet and relaxed, you'll be fine. The actually "popping the cherry" was pretty painless for me, and I was amazed at how much blood there was (use a towel >.< )

AND of course, please please please use birth control and a condom. Do not let that go. I know too many girls who just "forget" and then get pregnant... birth control is number one priority.

You should be fine... just be sure to use protection and relax! This isn't work... he won't think less of you if you don't know what to do, in fact I think most guys like it when they can teach the girl. Just enjoy it and be careful not to get caught if you are sneaking around!

4 play alot this will help with lub. then it will be ok. if he knows it is your first time he will be cool and gentle

Yes use protection. Just make sure that you get yourself wet. That being said, meaning kiss or whatever is going to turn you on. I will say the first time wasnt that great. I was like " this is what all the fuss is about?" but over time when you figure stuff out and what to do and such... its great.

I had high expectations my first time, only to be let down greatly. Even if you are not in pain (which, for me, it hurt like HELL the first few times not just the first time), it probably won't feel great. it takes some getting used to and gets better with practice. *****MAKE SURE YOU BOTH GET TESTED THOUGH first!!****.. I had an hiv/aids scare and BELIVE ME its not worth it. I have learned you can trust no one and esp if he's been with another girl, you should definitely get tested!!

Also, consider birth control. I would recommend using the pill and condoms, but at the very least make sure to use a condom! good luck!! and be safe =]

It may hurt a little at first but remember to remind your guy that it's your first time and to take it slow. It didn't hurt for me the first time and everyone of my friends said that it didn't hurt them. Just remember to take it easy and use protection. It wouldn't hurt if you were really excited and had a lot of foreplay before hand.

Don't be too anxious





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