Sexy time.?!


Question: When me and my boyfriend are having sex, with a condom.. He has a hard time.. well staying hard.. In a few weeks Im going on birth control. But it just sucks.. for both of us.. Its weird.. When hes using a condom it dosn't feel as good for me and him... So we just decided to stop having sex all together.[until birth control] but is there any way we can make it more enjoyable.. and make him stay hard? he has no problam getting a hard on.. its just like when he puts on the condom and we start going at it .. hes soft..
--sorry if this grosses you out.. Im just wondering.


Answers: When me and my boyfriend are having sex, with a condom.. He has a hard time.. well staying hard.. In a few weeks Im going on birth control. But it just sucks.. for both of us.. Its weird.. When hes using a condom it dosn't feel as good for me and him... So we just decided to stop having sex all together.[until birth control] but is there any way we can make it more enjoyable.. and make him stay hard? he has no problam getting a hard on.. its just like when he puts on the condom and we start going at it .. hes soft..
--sorry if this grosses you out.. Im just wondering.

What I do is lubricate my penis with alot of ky before I put on the condom. And then lube the outside after its on. My penis slides alittle in the condom and feels as good as if I didn't have one on. Be careful when pulling out that the condom does not come off. Use a hand and hold on the bottom. With a little care and knowledge you won't have a problem with it coming off. Use ky or some other approve lube so it won't break down the rubber. Size is important. Condoms to small are constricting and of course to large and it comes off.

Tell him to get over it. This is leaving YOU exposed to his entire sexual history.

Cut him off from sex a few weeks, all of a sudden that condom won't be an issue.

im on bc and i do it without. ive never really done it with him having one on....so i dont know what you're feeling. but depending on how long it takes for him to get off, id try the pull out method.

maybe u should try watching porn while having sex it might really help him stay hard which means more pleasure for you.

Honestly, he may be wearing the wrong size.

(Carefully) try a few different sizes, brands, and fits. At least the trying part will be fun!

wow......that sucks......

I've heard of condoms that has some stuff in it that solves this problem of yours...

Unfortunatly this mallady has plagued men since the invention of the condom.

Have you tried other brands? The feelings are much different in one brand than the next. Try lambskin, durex, ultra-thin, ultra-sensative. There are many options.

You can help him retain his erection if you make putting it on fun and sexy. Why dont you try to put it on him, while stimulating him?

If you both are in a monogomous relationship, then I would also going to the Doc, getting checked for std,hiv etc, and if you are all clear then you can go without the condom, once you are on birth control.

If your not monogamous then I would stay with the condom no matter what

Stop having sex with "boyfriends." Maybe it's his body telling him it's not the right time and place.

On reading I notice you did decide to stop, so great. This might also be of interest, as far as women are concerned:

http://decenturl.com/associatedcontent/d...





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