I've never had an orgasm and I've tried everything! i need help!?!
Question: i've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 1/2 years and he's been my only partner.
we have sex alot, but i've never had an orgasm, it feels good, but not like i'm going to have an orgasm, at all.
i have a vibrator and only get an orgasm from direct clitoral pressure so i think i may have screwed my sensations up down there or something, i dont know.
i am extremely frusterated and i dont know if its a psychological block or just my body.
i neeed hellllppppp and any suggestions or comments would be graetly appreciated..
like do i need to have vaginal rejuvenation or something?
Answers: i've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 1/2 years and he's been my only partner.
we have sex alot, but i've never had an orgasm, it feels good, but not like i'm going to have an orgasm, at all.
i have a vibrator and only get an orgasm from direct clitoral pressure so i think i may have screwed my sensations up down there or something, i dont know.
i am extremely frusterated and i dont know if its a psychological block or just my body.
i neeed hellllppppp and any suggestions or comments would be graetly appreciated..
like do i need to have vaginal rejuvenation or something?
That's actually not abnormal. Only a small minority of women are capable of having an orgasm through regular intercourse--it has to do with the distance between the vagina and the clitoris. If it's a short distance, then you're good to go. A longer distance, and it's just not going to happen. Most women need direct clitoral stimulation, so you might want to incorporate a vibrator into your sex play. Or can he rub you there while you're having sex. Or another alternative is him going down on you. If you use a vibrator a lot, then you might have to not use it for a couple weeks to get back full sensitivity down there in order to have an orgasm without a vibrator.
Vaginal "rejuvenation" is an effort to make the vagina tighter, which is good for him, but has nothing to do with your pleasure, and in fact can be harmful to you.
sounds like hes not hitting the right spots
Actually the statistics say that only like 30% of women can have an orgasm during sex. Most of us need clitoral stimulation. It's a bit frustrating but you just need to work around it. Guys have no idea how many women fake it.
you may not be old enough, you don't mention your age. A woman's body doesn't complete maturation until she is between 22 and 26 years of age. Your body may just not be ready for a penetration orgasm. Relax.
Now you have said you have been with the same guy for the last 2.5 years and have also used a vibrator an that you have had one by this use. Well my suggestion would be you know what an O is like so talk to him tell him here there and this or that until you have one and have him talk to you when you are doing what ever you do to him. It is not perverted or sadistic you are making love. you two should be close enough to speak to each other of the things you like or don't like. try different positions. they say that when you are about to have the big O you feel as if you have to pee but you don't. ther is nothing wrong with you stimulating yourself while he is in you he just might enjoy it also or have him touch you during the time he is in you.
Your normal, tell him to rough it up
This will make your boyfriend feel great about himself as well as getting you to climax....visit
www.peterfactory.com
Go to the rings and things section. Your boyfriend can wear a clit stimulating ring, that will give him pleasure and keep pressure on you clitoris...you will both be very happy!!!