HELP! My mum caught me masturbating, what should I do?!


Question: I was home alone at the weekend and I was in my bedroom. I was lying completley naked on my bed masturbating and to be honest I was making ALOT of noise. Then my mum opens the front door but I didn't hear, so I carry on very near to reachign orgasm then when my mum walks in I am screaming with pleasure. I look over to my door and she is standing there. We just stared at eachother for liek a few seconds and then she walked out of the room. What should I do?


Answers: I was home alone at the weekend and I was in my bedroom. I was lying completley naked on my bed masturbating and to be honest I was making ALOT of noise. Then my mum opens the front door but I didn't hear, so I carry on very near to reachign orgasm then when my mum walks in I am screaming with pleasure. I look over to my door and she is standing there. We just stared at eachother for liek a few seconds and then she walked out of the room. What should I do?

She's just embarassed, my guess is your family isn't very open about sexuality which is fine. If she hasn't brought it up neither would i. I wouldn't recommend your masturbation style however, i am a grown women and don't even expose myself that much in my own bedroom when i do it because there are other people in my house (two little girls). Also she is probably very concerned as to whether you are having sex with your boyfriend and if you are underage and it is her house, she's not spying you shes watching you, and she has every right to be.

SHE KNOWS ITS ONLY NATURAL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

wholy s*** that sucks im sorryy

OMG!!That would be the most embarrassing thing ever!!I don't even know what to say..I am speechless!

LOL! The only thing you can do sweetie - just be red faced for a few days, it will all blow over. Your mum knows that masturbation is completley normal! That would be horrific though, so i do feel for you!

OMG :S Thats so embarraasiiing ull both get over it :S Good luck xx

omg...bad luck...
talk to her.. alone ... maybe she did that when she was ur age... (( * wish u luck* )) ^^ ur gonna need it ^^

Absolutely nothing. What you were doing is absolutely natural. Was your door closed? If so, she should have respected your privacy. As a mother myself i can understand her shock in the moment but she will have to get over it. She may come to talk it out with you, but do not let her make you feel ashamed. I know if my son closes his door I am not going to embarrass him or walk in without knocking. So don't fret too long over this one, embarrassing things happen at different points in life, its how we react to the situation that matters. Good luck!

You don't need to do anything...if anything she needs to get the idea into her head that her little princess is growing into a woman.

I think a third party might help get things straight between you two if you both have problems start talking to each other. Someone like your mom's friend whom you are close to, her younger or elder sister etc.

though honestly i don't wanna be in your shoes right now...lol.

Ask your family that as you are getting older, just to knock before they come in and wait a bit, WHATEVER you are doing, just so your personal privacy can be respected. We all need that.

Just wait it out, don't talk if you don't want to, and when she speaks to you, talk back, because it means she's ready to speak. It must have been pretty awkward for her too... BUT this is something that is so common and natural that she should understand that it happens, it almost comes into the procedure of growing up alongside puberty. She should understand that.

OMG !!! Thats so embarrasing. I feel so sorry for you...i dont know what to say...i would be so embarrased and honestly i dont think i would want to go out of my room for quiet some time, but im sure she feels the same way and right now she's thinking how to confront you. Good Luck, keep us posted..lol..

how old are you?
it willllll blow over

Same thing happened to me. Only it was my dad who I looked up and saw. We never said a word about it. If she is basically a good mom she is probably just concerned about you being sexually active and STD's, pregnancy, or you being hurt by someone you have shared so much of yourself with. Perhaps she is a little reminiscent of her younger days. Or she longs for such an intense feeling for herself. Your actions from now on can reassure her that you are being responsible. Take it one day at a time and the situation will resolve itself. Good luck!

Hope your mother isn't a christian. Everyone is saying she knows it's natural but if she was like my mum she would probably kick me out of the house. My mum hates anything to do with sex, especially such a sinful act of self pleasure. But if she isn't religious she might be ok with it. But in society women masturbating is looked upon as wrong. I'm not agreeing with it but it's how it is looked upon.
If you're young you need to learn how to discretely masturbate i.e don't make a sound and don't be butt naked on the bed. be under the covers at least. no one walks in on you in the bathroom too.
hopefully it will just blow over. give it a week or two.
if your mum hasn't said anything to you yet she probably doesn't know how to handle the situation.

i feel so sorry for you, how embarrassing ?

i would give it a while just let it sink in.

Hope this helps!

It'll blow over in a few days. She's probably just shocked.





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