Breaking hymen.?!
Question: so when i first lost my virgnity, i didnt break my hymen and bleed,
the reasoning behind this?
also , what can i do to prevent it from bleeding the nex time me and my bf have sex[ because it seems kind of disgusting and embarasing]
also i dont use tampons and dont do any athletic activties that could have broken it before
Answers: so when i first lost my virgnity, i didnt break my hymen and bleed,
the reasoning behind this?
also , what can i do to prevent it from bleeding the nex time me and my bf have sex[ because it seems kind of disgusting and embarasing]
also i dont use tampons and dont do any athletic activties that could have broken it before
when i first had sex my hymen didn't break and i didn;t bleed either. the only time you may bleed is if the guy is too big for you. your really not supposed to bleed anyway. your hymen doesn't break, it just stretches. after you have sex it will go back to its original size, so it may hurt when you do it again.
Tampons don't break it. They stretch it.
You could've broken it when doing something random, like moving something, thought you were spotting and got a cramp. Or maybe you're an oddity and don't have one?
Some women don't bleed. If you are not one of these women then there is no way you can prevent it from bleeding unless you stick your finger up there and break it yourself right now hahaha but eeew that might hurt alot.
hymens "flexibility" depends on the person..haha so even though it sounds funny, your hymen could either be really flexible or really fragile..im guessing yours is more on the flexible side..and thats why it didnt break.
it will eventually though, and i dont think there is anything to prevent it.. sorry
might not have had one in the first place (some women don't) or it stretched easily, so you should be fine, or it just broke somehow (it doesn't have to be by sports, so yeah...)
ummm it just might not bleed next time, or try to break it by yourself? or get the doctor to (i don't know if they do or not though, so yeah...)?
It is nothing to be ashamed of, if your b\f finds it disgusting then he is not respecting you. You could have broke your hymen and not even knew it. Bleeding is normal the first few times you have sex, I remember bleeding the first few times. I would definitely recommend lubrication, such as KY.
Some people don't bleed when they lose their virginity when the hymen breaks and they never will after that. You could possibly be one of the lucky ones. If it truly hasn't broken, there is not much you can do to prevent this and there's nothing to you can do to prevent it if you are a bleeder.
I suggest just taking it easy the next time you have sex and if you do start bleeding, wait a few days before you have sex again just so you can heal and then you should never have a problem again.