Help with.....sex question.?!
Question: My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about three months now, and we want to try anal sex, but everytime he tries, he cant get it in, we use lube, and all that. I just turned 15 in december, would it maybe work when im older? any suggestions on how to make it easier.
Answers: My boyfriend and I have been having sex for about three months now, and we want to try anal sex, but everytime he tries, he cant get it in, we use lube, and all that. I just turned 15 in december, would it maybe work when im older? any suggestions on how to make it easier.
You should have a few orgasms first, to loosen you up in that area. Use way more lube than you think you need - use about 3 times that much. And Remember that you control the depth and the penetration, not him. If he does it, he will wind up hurting you bad. (There is no other pain like that, trust). Position yourself in the doggy style position and back up on him, DO NOT let him thrust until its all the way in. And if it hurts, stop. Its not going to get looser with time, its just a matter of you getting used to it enough. The anal sphincter does not stretch out of shape ever.
um...wait til you GROW?
No!
U are to small
You REALLY need to wait to make decisions like that when you are older.
Well, actually. Its not bc you are too small or young. Its easy to find sites that will help you ease up to it. ( I'd give you one, but you are underage :S) Just type in, "how to have anal sex" that should help.
seems your already going too far.
Honestly I dont want to sound like your mom or something but you are to young to even be having sex! But To answer your question you are not done growing so it *might* work later! also I hope you are on birth control and are using protection cuz if you have started at 15 by the time you are 20 no telling what kind of STD's you will have if not!
Yeah!
Maybe when you're older it might work better.
But really, age had nothing to do with it.
Maybe hes just too big and it wont go in.
This happends to most people..
But 15 IS kinda young to be having sex.
But that is your disition.
"How you have anal sex"- Search it up.
good luck.
Wow what has this world come to when 14-15 year olds are asking these kind of questions....when i was 14-15 i was enjoying being a KID!
I realy think you are too young. But you probably won't take that for an answer. You need to be loosened up before he tries entering you. The best type of lube is KY Silke have him put a drop on your anus and a drop or two on his finger and work one finger in your anus using circular motions to stretch you When he can add two and then maybe three fingers constactly adding more lube and going on circular motions to stretch you. You need to relax as much as possable or it won't work. Let him work on loosening you up 10-15 minutes or more. Lube up his penis with a few drops of Silke and he needs to enter you as soon as he pulls his fingers out. When I say one drop or a drop or two I mean it literally. It takes a very small amount of KY Silke. It was recommended to us a an OB/GYN becuase my wife no longer produces enough natural lubrication.
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And yes, it might be a smart idea to WAIT until you're old enough to DRIVE at least. And maybe when you're married?
who wants to do it this way you or him?if its him i would say he is a lot more experienced,you don't need him.you are to young to be going this far with sex!if you are doing this now what fun are you going to have later when you want to experiment? if he has tried,that means you have already had pain,and yes its painful ,and its all up to you because you are tense,so you are tightening up,it will still hurt.DON'T DO THIS AT YOUR AGE!!DON'T HAVE SEX AT YOUR AGE!!THIS IS NOT LOVE!have fun and act like a teenager.
what happened to kids being KIDS????????????????
where did the KIDS GO????