What can a man do to help with your cramps?!
Question: Wouldnt sex take your mind off them?
Answers: Wouldnt sex take your mind off them?
No. A lot of women just do not feel comfortable with sex during their period. Actually, if you felt like total crap and were cramping all over, the last thing you want to do is have sex. On top of all that, the thought of bleeding during sex is embarrassing and makes you uncomfortable. Some women are ok with it but if SHE doesn't bring it up, DON'T go there. You can hold off for a couple of days.
I would say to be nice and help you can say(genuinely) "sweetie, I totally get understand and hope this will help" and give her a heating pad (you can get them at any Walmart in the medicine isle), some of her favorite food, and some Midol. It helps and unless she is a total feminist brat, she'll be happy you aren't trying to hump her, lol. I had a boyfriend who did that for me. He was the most masculine guy so I was in shock. It was the nicest thing he could have done. :)
not really. Sex is not the answer to everything
no not at all. just give the girl some time to feel better
sex is the last thing we think about when we've got cramps!!!
exercise is good to help relieve them but so is a little TLC!!!!(hot bath, heat packs, dinner in bed with a movie,snuggle time)
no. Probaly just the idea of yall having sex is making her hurt worst. just leave her alone!
sex would but that is the last thing many women want when they are carmping and on their periods. give her a massage, tap her a bath, make her a cup of tea, anything that you know soothes her do it, it'll work out for you in the long run when the week is over.
Sex doesn't take your mind off cramps at all! It may relieve them temporarily but I really prefer my man to be sympathetic. He rubs my belly and snuggles me all the time when I do. Even if he is in the middle of something and he sees that I'm cramping a lot, he comes over and rubs my belly. It makes it feel so much better! He even rubs my lower back. SO, be nurturing and caring. That's the best thing. If your in pain, would you want to have sex, and would it take your mind off of the pain? Don't think so.
Personally, I still do it when I'm on it and not bleeding too heavily but I prefer a nice warm bath, dinner cooked for me, and a back rub.
Ye gods, another guy who thinks sex is the answer to everything!!
Son, menstrual cramps arent' something that get relieved by sex. When a female is cramping, the pain can be excruciating. The LAST thing she wants is to have a guy who has no clue to be poking around down there.
When I was a teenager and having menstrual cramps, I could have had Brad Pitt standing next to me, and I wouldn't have cared. The pain was that bad.
NO!!!!!!! WHY WOULD A WOMAN WANT TO HAVE SEX WHEN THEY ARE IN PAIN???????? PUT YOURSELF IN HER SHOES, AND STOP THINKING ABOUT YOURSELF!!!!!!
Running her a nice bubble bath with candles in the bathroom and soft music, rub her back for her as a lot of women have lower back cramps when they have period cramps, snuggle up to her in a non-sexual way. if you make an attempt to comfort her she will more than likely appreciate it. bw, it's really sweet of you to want to help a woman when she is cramping.
really it depends on the girl, or even the day. One month sex may be great to help take her mind off them and the next month it may be the farthest thing from help. I'd say you can help keep her medicated, a pain killer, something with ibuprofen or those special menstrual syndrome pills always work wonders. Its also important she stays hydrated, bring her water or her fav drink once every few hours. A heating pad, and keeping warm helps. Try giving her a massage. Aim for the lower back, always helps ease the cramps. Make sure shes relaxed! Pamper her for a day or two, it'd make you feel good to know your helping her too!
Any of those things combined should help, on days sex doesn't. Orgasming actually stops the feelings of cramps for a while, but unfortunately they do come back after. Hope that helps ya keep your girl happy!
Sex when I'm bloated, cranky and doubled over with cramps? Are you kidding me? I'd rather lick the floor! Do the dishes for me. That might help.
Ive heard that having an orgasm helps.
If she doesnt want to have it with you, bring her a vibrator and give her some private time.
a nice long 2 hour massage!!! that would be great!