I can't have an orgasm when I'm on bottom?!
Question: My husband tries his very best but I have to fake orgasms every time I'm on the bottom (I just don't want to hurt his feelings). In the last two years since we've been married, I've found that I've maybe had an orgasm when on bottom three times, if that. I just want to know if that's normal? Or, if there's something that I'm doing wrong? Please help!
Answers: My husband tries his very best but I have to fake orgasms every time I'm on the bottom (I just don't want to hurt his feelings). In the last two years since we've been married, I've found that I've maybe had an orgasm when on bottom three times, if that. I just want to know if that's normal? Or, if there's something that I'm doing wrong? Please help!
First, hopefully your husband is not breaking the second technique rule for men: "ladies first." As far as climaxing from vaginal intercourse in general, the information I been seeing is that only about 35% of women climax from vaginal intercourse. My wife says that she did not until about thirty: 11 years after we married. The other thing that you may try is the CAT position which is a modified missionary position: Cat Position or modified missionary where the guy is forward two to four inches and lies flat on the female body so his pelvic bone is against her clitoris and his arms cup the woman