I am a virgin, so why do I want sex so much?!


Question: I know these are my hormonal phases, so does it die down when I get past my teens? I would masturbate to relive myself, but I am taught that is wrong. I can't do oral, or touching, or sex until marriage. Thoughts? How did other virgins and/or Christians handle this?


Answers: I know these are my hormonal phases, so does it die down when I get past my teens? I would masturbate to relive myself, but I am taught that is wrong. I can't do oral, or touching, or sex until marriage. Thoughts? How did other virgins and/or Christians handle this?

Star M, I'm a virgin too. However, I'm a male not a female.

I'll tell what I do, I rely on faith and prayers, most of the time they "alter" my mood, and makes me lust-less, but sometimes I'm sooo horny that even those doesn't work! That's when I run to my PC games such as Command and Conquer or any action game; having something that would let my sympathetic nervous system kicks in! Then the lust is gone!

Arousal is a parasympathetic function, so when you do something like playing those games the brain can inhibit sexual arousal since the sympathetic system kicks in instead.

If the game is not that exciting but it's a good game, like, the plot is good or something it should be enough too as you will be taken away by it. but action / adrenaline-rush games works all the time with me :)

If you don't like games, then watch movies! Action movies work (yeah, just don't watch James Bond or such, though :P), but horror movies work bloody well! (Probably the best choice out of all the above).

Goodluck!

its your natural sexual drive. it might get less after your teens cos you got a lotta hormones. Really? No masturbation? Jeez dude. Hard life for you then.

Iam a teen Christian virgin as well, and I know what you are talking about. God created us to be sexual beings so it is fine and even normal to think about sex and want to do sex. I agree with you that you should leave sex, oral, and that kind of stuff until marriage. I never had been thaught that masturbating was wrong though, so i dont know what to tell u about that.

welcome to the real world touching our self is ok and you will not go to hell because of it. its is kinda better u can not get ads =D. you need to no when to do it and when not to. and u will always have that sex drive but its stronger during teens.

Oh Good GRIEF!! Masturbation is NOT wrong! It's perfectly normal what you're feeling; what ISN'T normal, is what you've been taught about what's 'wrong' and what's not. "How do other Christian's handle this", well all you have to do is pick up any newspaper to see how they're "handling" this - not too well, it would appear. You need to get some counselling so that you can be comfortable with your body and get over some of the hangups that have been instilled in your brain by all that "Christian" teaching. If you don't you'll end up in the newspapers like all your "Christian" brothers and sisters!

i say do what you believe is right, you cant be put to limits that other people put you at. theres plenty of people who believe in god and all but still have sex before marriage. if anything just dont do anything with the wrong person. and if you really want to wait till marriage then do that

yes it is normal because your body is going through puberty and you have a lot of hormones. and you might want it so much because you are not allowed to do it. people crave things they cant or shouldn't have

go ****
go crazy
get drunk and have babies
who gives a **** if u get an std. like seriously ur a virgin. just kill yourselfff.

Can you tell me why masturbating is wrong? How is wrong to explore your own body, and give yourself a little pleasure while you're at it?! This is why girls feel insecure and ashamed!! There is nothing wrong with being comfortable with your body! Plus, if you're waiting 'til marriage and you can't masturbate, these feelings aren't gonna go away.... you're gonna be horny for a long, long, long, long time.

My thoughts: don't take religion that seriously. Why'd God give you a clit if he didn't want you to touch it?

Hi,
funny story. I'm 17 a virgin, and DON'T have any sex drive at ALL.
Please say I am not normal...
I just don't want sex. AT ALL. I don't think about, want it, or anything that has to do with it. I avoid it.

I am straight, I never had a boyfriend, although I would love to date a guy some day.

In regards to you, I think it's normal...you should have your sex drive like that.

I think it's me who has problems.

Being a christian does not mean that you can not masterbate!!!!!!!!! It is NOT wrong. The reason you have been taught that it is wrong is because there are so many people in the older generation that are closed minded, especially in the christian religion. They are afraid of things that they do not know about...other virgins masterbate, married couples do it too. I live in the heart of the bible belt and i know how strick some people can be because of their beliefs, but trust me....it is not wrong, and it really makes me mad and sad to see that you are being taught that it is, that is just causing another generation to be as closed minded as the generations before us!!!!
DO IT GIRL AND ENJOY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i guess you just have to do things to occupy your time.Do you think masturbation is wrong? you should decide that for yourself dear.

I'm a christian, I've been going to church all my life. I masturbate, i dont think im going to hell, cause why would god make us with those urges...





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