Possible TMI question about sex after he climaxes...?!
Question: I dont have any more information other than what i am sharing with you because I am asking this on behalf of a friend. She and my sister and I were talking about sex tonite and she said that when her and her long time boyfriend have sex, after he climaxes and cu.ms sometimes he keeps going so that she can also climax. The problem is that when he keeps going after he has climaxed, it starts to burn her down there like a UTI. It is ONLY after he has came and he keeps going for her, it doesnt matter what point of excitement she is at. My sister and I thought this was weird and we didnt know what to say to it because neither of us have experienced it before and dont know how to advise her. Thanks for the answers.
BTW....she is 21...
Answers: I dont have any more information other than what i am sharing with you because I am asking this on behalf of a friend. She and my sister and I were talking about sex tonite and she said that when her and her long time boyfriend have sex, after he climaxes and cu.ms sometimes he keeps going so that she can also climax. The problem is that when he keeps going after he has climaxed, it starts to burn her down there like a UTI. It is ONLY after he has came and he keeps going for her, it doesnt matter what point of excitement she is at. My sister and I thought this was weird and we didnt know what to say to it because neither of us have experienced it before and dont know how to advise her. Thanks for the answers.
BTW....she is 21...
Some women feel this way when semen is inside them. I actually watched an Oprah show during which this was discussed, because a woman thought she was literally allergic to her husband, which is sorta true.
Here's the link to the actual question that Dr. Oz answered.
http://www.oprah.com/health/oz/oz_200704...
Here's a similar question as well....
http://www.oprah.com/health/sexuality/he...
Hope that helps!
I find that can sometimes happen to me when my man goes for a marathon after he's climaxed. I actually believe it's his ejaculate that's the source of the burning! This may sound gross but on the odd occasion when my bf has gone down on me after he's ejaculated, the skin around his mouth starts to burn. Also, after snuggling for a while after sex, I'll find the ejaculate starts to make my genitals/inner thighs itchy/burny. And as a final example, after a man has ejaculated inside your mouth, do you find your mouth very dry/parched? I do! hehe - It's obviously some chemical or component in male's ejaculate that can cause this - the smell alone would make one think that it's quite acidic!
It's truly nothing dangerous or anything to worry about, but maybe suggest to your friend that either he makes her climax first, or that he climaxes outside of her vagina. She should tell him the problem, and if anything he should be most willing to sort out this problem - he doesn't want to hurt her obviously, he thinks he's doing the right thing - he wants to make her climax! Communication will improve things and allow for them to learn each other even more!
There are a couple of possibilities. It could be that she is allergic to something in his fluid. Tell her to try using a condom, at least as an experiment. If she doesn't burn while he has the condom on, then he should get his fulid checked by a lab.
Another possibility is that during sex she's become overly sensitive in that area, and furthur stimulation burns or itches rather than adding pleasure.
I know that one thing that does seem to get shortchanged nowadays is foreplay.
Hope this helps...