Is it wrong of me to be only 15 and already have had sex?!
Question: yes, but not a degrading yes, cuz i did at 16. but being 43 and a mother of a 14 year old, i think back to how innocent those teen years are to be...being that young u may think that the physicalness of (sex) is love , but really its not yet. its new and different then parental love, & u feel special, at least i did at that age, but looking at my 14yrold, i want to fill her needs emotionally,mentally,etc. so she doesnt look outside of herself or her family to fill a need that dont need to be met until she is mature mentally and physically, i look back to that boyfriend whom i was with, how i thought the world was going to end when we broke up, and now i look back and think WHAT A JERK.. take ur time u have the rest of your life,
Answers: yes, but not a degrading yes, cuz i did at 16. but being 43 and a mother of a 14 year old, i think back to how innocent those teen years are to be...being that young u may think that the physicalness of (sex) is love , but really its not yet. its new and different then parental love, & u feel special, at least i did at that age, but looking at my 14yrold, i want to fill her needs emotionally,mentally,etc. so she doesnt look outside of herself or her family to fill a need that dont need to be met until she is mature mentally and physically, i look back to that boyfriend whom i was with, how i thought the world was going to end when we broke up, and now i look back and think WHAT A JERK.. take ur time u have the rest of your life,
Yes.
At 15, you could not possibly responsibly handle..
-pregnancy
-raising a child
-HIV
-other STDs
-the emotional part of sex
-the breakup with the person you have sex with
yes
yeah kinda
I think that age is too young for sex because most teenagers are not mature enough to handle the consequences.
it seems slightly slutty to have had sex that young, but i suppose everyone has their own freedom.x
That's too personal of a question to ask a group of people you don't know. You need to base your answer on your family values.
If you must ask, then you certainly dont understand the possible consequences of your actions.
a 15 year old shouldnt be having sex!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Yes, you can't even drive, why are you having sex?? I waited until I was 17-18. It was with a long time boyfriend who turned into my husband a few years later. My husband was 14 and it makes me angry that he was sooo young, and has had many different partners before me.
...Let's look at the facts - if what you say is true, you have put yourself at risk for STDs, early/unwanted/unplanned pregnancy, early parenthood (for about the next 18 years), and if you do have a child, you are not prepared to bring him/her up in the best environment which is a two-parent household, with a mother and a father.
...Not too smart, huh? Think about it.
No because some people start when they are younger in start have baby's but it your life in only you can lead it.
I was 15. As long as it wasnt a one night stand... i was in a year long relationship and felt i could handle the responsabilty if anything went wrong.
i think its wrong of these people to say its wrong wen they dont know u. If u think it was wrong, it probably was. But if u think u made the right decision, it probably was.
lol! no i guess not. im 17 and my first time was like when i was 14 or somthin. um as long as u use protection u should be fine, and make the guy get tested for std's.
I don't think it's necessarily wrong...I think it varies from person to person. I know that for myself, there was no possible way I could have been emotionally prepared for sex, or prepared to deal with the possible consequences at fifteen, but that's just me. I think you have to sit back and think about whether a year, or ten years down the line if you might regret it...and if you're answer is yes, then you're not ready for the responsibility that comes with having sex.
i dont know if i think it is wrong, but its not good. i lost my virginity when i was 15 too, but it wasnt really planned, we were both drunk and it happened.. but well 4 and half years later i am still with him, and i a getting married next summer to him. so if you are just sleeping around with whoever, then no its not right. but dont loose sleep over it thinking your such a horrible person cuase your not. its scary and there is huge consiquences in some cases, luckily not mine. but at least your thinking about it, and thinking that its wrong, your thinking right. so maybe now just take it slow, until you are ready with someone you really love. good luck
Well.
You'll realize you shouldn't have done it when you actually do find the right guy. I found mine and we're married and I regret losing mine. When people say it's supposed to be 'special', you'll realize that it was supposed to be.
Virginity's some thing you won't get back. Even with surgery.
If you're being responsible and using a very good form of birth control and protection from std's then there is nothing wrong with it. As long as you are mature enough to handle it.
I lost my virginity when I was 14. Some people say I was too young, but it was with someone very special to me and I was very responsible.
Don't worry about other people, do what makes you happy as long as you're not harming yourself or anyone else.
I lost my virginity at 15. Raging hormones, I know. UNPROTECTED SEX is wrong. With birth control pills and condoms at the same time you can enjoy sex and prevent STD's and pregnancy!!
YOU CHOOSE TO DO WHAT YOU CHOOSE TO DO. YOU SHOULDN'T LET STRANGERS HELP YOU DECIDE IF WHAT YOU DID WAS WRONG. USE PROTECTION, BE CAREFUL, AND DON'T DO IT WITH ANY GUY. IT'S YOUR CALL.
not if you have been with one person for a looong time then I don't think so
depends, if you really loved hte person, maybe, if it was a quicky thing then you probably rushed it. im 16 and still a virgin, and if you get another a bf or w/e, they dont like to hear high numbers.
No,
I personally do not think it is.
I know its underage and illegal or whatnot
But if you've done it and it felt right and especially if you dont regret it then its perfectly fine.
But if youre gonna do it again just take precautions just in case.
Becuase you could get pregnant or catch an STI.
So use protection and make sure you are comfortable.
xxx
yess!
and i know some ppl that did when they were like 13!
what is our world coming to.......?
stop don't do it again, do you want a baby or std?
yes. Focus on school