Help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?!
Question: i have been dating my boyfriend for a long time now. i never had an orgasm. how can i help him and myself by getting one??
Answers: i have been dating my boyfriend for a long time now. i never had an orgasm. how can i help him and myself by getting one??
Give yourself one first, then you can teach him.... buy a hand-held body massager at your local drug store and try it out. Shower massagers also work. Most girls do not have an orgasm through sexual intercourse. It requires direct manual/oral/toy stimulation to the clitoris.
just tell him what you like, or if he does something you like, let him know. they like it :)
Try and give yourself one first.
That way you know what you like and where you like it, so you can instruct him.
Good luck!
toys, more foreplay, he could go down on you more, different positions, adult movies.