Help(again), am i egoist if i dont let my BF give me or.al?!
Question: am i egoist if i dont let my BF give me or.al s.ex?
i'm sorry i dont mean to be such an immature girl,
it's just i never do that before, i dont think i will like it, and sometimes i'm just worried that it will taste bad and he will be disgusted,
and...well... i just dont feel comfortable about it..
am i egoist to refuse everytime he wants to do it?
(never do that until now -we have been dating for 1 year, have had sex and gave him head a couple of times)
he keep asking me about it
should i just let him do it even though i feel really umm.. shy.. and uncomfortable?
Answers: am i egoist if i dont let my BF give me or.al s.ex?
i'm sorry i dont mean to be such an immature girl,
it's just i never do that before, i dont think i will like it, and sometimes i'm just worried that it will taste bad and he will be disgusted,
and...well... i just dont feel comfortable about it..
am i egoist to refuse everytime he wants to do it?
(never do that until now -we have been dating for 1 year, have had sex and gave him head a couple of times)
he keep asking me about it
should i just let him do it even though i feel really umm.. shy.. and uncomfortable?
everyone feels slightly worried that they smell or taste bad- but dont worry about it- you smell like a woman- and trust me- he will be so stoked that he has a naked chick in a bed :P
p.s its totally about your confort- just let go and have fun :)
honestly its all about what makes you fell comfortable and good so if you dont want then dont let him, its not you being stuck up its just not something youre interesred in
You shouldn't do anything you are not comfortable. Now that being said, do you not want to try it because you think he will be disgusted by the taste? you can have him taste you first, if it makes you feel better, by using his fingers. Are you worried about doing it because at some point in your life you accepted that female oral sex was "wrong" or "weird" or "slutty". I suggest you think about why the thought of oral makes you uncomfortable. If after that you still are uncomfortable tell your boyfriend about it and discuss it, telling him you are not comfortable with it and do not want to try it (and why), and he should respect your opinion and boundaries. You have the right to refuse any kind of sex, even when you are in a monogamous sexual relationship.