How to connect more emotionally during intimacy?!

Question: when me and my boyfriend get initimate i feel like an object.. in what ways can we connect more emotionally when connecting physically?

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Answers: when me and my boyfriend get initimate i feel like an object.. in what ways can we connect more emotionally when connecting physically?

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this is a common problem....men just want to get off....women need affection....DONT let him have any more until you discuss the intamacy issue and then if he still doesnt respond....dont give him anymore..theres MORE to love than sex...you can always masterbate to relieve yourself...hold his feet to the flame or just be SATISFIED with what you have

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look into his eyes.
if he doesnt do it....well its not good. ul kno its rite wen hel look into ur eyes

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Make continuous eye contact and say sweet things to each other. Touch each other a lot; not just sexually, but do things like stroke his hair and run your hand gently over his face.

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kiss more.

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Emotional intimacy fuels sexual desire. Not all people are good a emotional intimacy - that's sharing very personal, emotional things. Looking into his eyes, talking to him, but I get the feeling you want it to be mutual. He may not be the guy for you if he's unable to share emotional intimacy.

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