Loss of interest...?!
Question: I have been going out with this guy for just about 9 months. The Sex isn't enjoyable anymore. I have tryed to get him to play around and do other things, but he just doesn't want to. He says he isn't into really anything. I just don't know what to do to gain my interest back. Does anyone have any ideas?
Answers: I have been going out with this guy for just about 9 months. The Sex isn't enjoyable anymore. I have tryed to get him to play around and do other things, but he just doesn't want to. He says he isn't into really anything. I just don't know what to do to gain my interest back. Does anyone have any ideas?
I think you mean gain HIS interest back.
You can touch him delicately in certain places, use your hair and mouth on his body.and explain that you don't want sex, just gently loving his body is enough for you.
Most guys get that way if they feel that every show of attention is a way of getting sex.
Males want it to be their idea first and suffer sexual performance anxiety if they don't feel totally ready to perform when they think their partner wants sex.
Be patient and loving and if you do well at spoiling him, he will eventually come around and try harder for you.
In order to get him to do what you want, you must take what generally feels good on you and use it on him.
You can try to gain his interest back or you can think seriously about it and decide if this is the kind of relationship you want. What about when you get married? Believe me, don't think you can change him, because you can't. Don't stay with him if he's not everything you want in a man.