I don't know wat to do!?!
Question: Hi, im 16 and have a long term boyfriend, we want to have sex bt im really scared ill be self-consious and won't enjoy it. My labia minora protrudes and im worried he'll be like WTF!- i love him btw! I am also thinking of surgery to make it smaller - i know it seems extreme, but im really affected by it. Could i get it on the NHS and want do u think would be the minimum age to have it done?Or should i not bother and live with it and is hes rude tell him to go ****himself
thanks
Answers: Hi, im 16 and have a long term boyfriend, we want to have sex bt im really scared ill be self-consious and won't enjoy it. My labia minora protrudes and im worried he'll be like WTF!- i love him btw! I am also thinking of surgery to make it smaller - i know it seems extreme, but im really affected by it. Could i get it on the NHS and want do u think would be the minimum age to have it done?Or should i not bother and live with it and is hes rude tell him to go ****himself
thanks
No, surgery isn't required. You're fine, no 2 look alike.
But at 16, you might want to put intercourse off. 2nd and 3rd base is just as fun, with no risk of being a teenage mom.
I usually refer these sorts of questions to scarleteen.com, the best sex ed site I know of, since every answer you get will give you 20 more questions in life.
You'll want to read it, and also teenwire.com, another good educational site by Planned Parenthood.
Don't worry about it mate. If he truly loves you, he will be happy with it mate.
Tell him about it first it will make you feel better and then he wont react when he sees it
First EXCUSE MY ENGLISH....and i dont know if you ll get my meaning because of my bad use of english language or because i didnt get the question right... (for the same reason!)
Anyway I dont believe that there is a right answer to your question...
But i ll tell you what one of my teachers at school told us in the class... and really "clicked" me...
People in every society (family school work etc) always try to put some things "out of bounds"... "Don't do this...Dont do that , dont go there..." so we grow up with that way of thinking.... "DONT..." and we end up always caring about what people say but not caring about what we want to do or about how we feel...
If you really want to do smth which is going to make you happy... (whatever it is btw) do it but do it for you...
I think that what she ment was to live the way you like cause thats the only way to enjoy living and dont let others tell you what to do...
She s a really good teacher by the way...
I dont know if i understood the question because of my language but i hope you kind of understood what im telling you...
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