My boyfriend and huh sex....?!


Question: My boyfriend and I went to see a movie yesterday and he started talking about sex. he wanted to have it with me. I said no and he started talking real dirty and grabbed my boob and down there. I said stop it and he did. today he called me and dumped me. im kinda sad but im not ready to have sex am i right about all of this?


Answers: My boyfriend and I went to see a movie yesterday and he started talking about sex. he wanted to have it with me. I said no and he started talking real dirty and grabbed my boob and down there. I said stop it and he did. today he called me and dumped me. im kinda sad but im not ready to have sex am i right about all of this?

Good for you!!! If you know that you aren't ready then don't do it!! He's a jerk for disrespecting you!! Break-ups are sad...but you'll find a guy who respects you and your wishes...and jerk-boy will be forever forgotten!!!

You go girl! Don't let him disrespect your veiws!

If your not ready and he doesnt respect you enough to understand that you're not ready than he is not worth it. Show him what he's missing out on. Dont dwell on him. He's a jerk.

You did right. This shows what he really thought about you. He wanted you for sex.

Oh my god. What a complete loser. If he has that little respect for you, to go against your wishes and lower you to those standards, then he's not worth your time let alone your thoughts!

It is easy to see what he is after!

You did good to kick him to the curb!

He was just in it for the sex, good thing that you're not with him anymore
Just forget about him, look for a guy that will be with you for who you are, not just for the sex in it ok?

hez a jerk....keep on living

YES U R RIGHT!!! IF HE DUMPED U JUZ CAUSE OF DAT DEN HE JUS WANTED DA FROM U ALL ALONG...DON WORRY HUN!!! THINGS ARE GOING TO B OK!

You did the right thing.

It's great you stood up for yourself. Don't ever let a man pressure you into having sex! I am very proud of you and you should be too. Obviously he was only after one thing and he probably would of left after you gave it up anyway.

yea u did good
if ur not ready den dont do it

good job! you are so in the right
(im not be sarcastic. im serious)

DO NOT feel bad at all. You have the right to say no when your boyfriend wants to have sex. Your bf was an idiot for basically forcing you to do it, thats not right. If he really loved you and cared for you he would respect your decisions but he is a stupid jerk so he doesnt care for you nor does did he love you, all he wanted was to get it on and you were mature enough to let him know you are not just a sex toy. Him dumping you was great. Later you will find someone who really cares about you and will not bring up the sex talk not untill you do, thats what a real man who loves you does. Youll see. Good luck. You will never be too old for your first time.

i guess u are right. its your decision after all. relationships are like businesses. its all about trading in a way. and u have to decide how the trade will gonna be. feeling little bit sad because your bf dumped ya, or simply saying no because u dont want to. but lets assume u would want to if u met the right guy. so u did the right thing. and feelings dont lie, right or wrong?

If he dumped you for that you certainly shouldn't want him for a boyfriend never mind have sex with him. You are by far better off without him.

You did the right thing. Don't let anyone talk you into anything you feel is wrong.

You did a good job! he shouldv'e respected you when you said that you didn't want to have sex. and after you told him that, when he started grabbing you, that just shows how irresponsible he is. You are TOTALLLY right about that. :) good job!!!

Way to go! Congratulations for standing up for yourself!
(grand dad of 2 girls)

Good for you! He has no respect for you if he grabbed you like that and then showed he doesn't even care about you by dumping you over sex. If he cared he would wait until you are ready... Stick to your guns... bravo to you!!

YOU DESREVED TO GET DUMPED YOU LED HIM ONE THEN GAVE HIM NOTHING... WHATS WRONG WITH YOU





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