Most awkward question i have ever asked?!


Question: ok so I am now 18 years old, but I started having sex with my 20 year old boyfriend when I was 16. I didn't bleed or anything because I ride horses (cherry already popped lol) but sex really really hurt. The thing was that it didn't stop hurting. we were having sex for almost a year at least once or twice a week, and it always hurt. Does anyone know why? Also, there was absolutely no pleasure on my part. It sucked. I always hear about women having orgasms through sex, but I cant even imagine it.

I can't believe I actually asked this question, its pretty embarrassing!!


Answers: ok so I am now 18 years old, but I started having sex with my 20 year old boyfriend when I was 16. I didn't bleed or anything because I ride horses (cherry already popped lol) but sex really really hurt. The thing was that it didn't stop hurting. we were having sex for almost a year at least once or twice a week, and it always hurt. Does anyone know why? Also, there was absolutely no pleasure on my part. It sucked. I always hear about women having orgasms through sex, but I cant even imagine it.

I can't believe I actually asked this question, its pretty embarrassing!!

i have the same issue -- i went to see a doctor. for me, it was just an infection that they gave me medication for (as a result of my birth control)

see a doctor, its not embarassing! there could be other complications or something going on down there that is not necessarily normal -- so just go check it out. tons of people have this problem, just go check it out!

also -- my suggestion...make sure you and your partner are well lubricated and using condoms to prevent any type of infection -- there are water based lubricants you can buy which will help the pain ...also, make sure you relax and sex isnt super rough or its gonna hurt worse!

good luck!

Ask a doctor. I hear it's supposed to hurt the first few times though... but still ask a doctor.

umm are you even wet when you have sex? because that could be causing the pain.

If you have been having sex twice a week for a year and it still hurts then it's time to see a doctor to rule out any serious physical problems.

That could be from a number of things from not enough lubrication to something serious like endometriosis. Go see the gynecologist and ask him/her. They've heard it all, so it's not embarrassing!

if your arent having orgasms and its hurting all the time i would definitly go to a doctor about that.

you're probably just not relaxed when you are having sex. Relax and stop being embarrassed about sex. You are probably tensing up with makes it painful.

dont be embarassed, this is a health question. Do you become lubricated while yall are having sex? If you are dry f****** then maybe thats whats causing the irriation.

check out this link: maybe itll help
http://www.med.umich.edu/1libr/wha/wha_p...

are u horny? do u feel horny when u have sex? do u feel mentally stimulated? or u just do it because your bf wants u to have sex? do u wanna have sex? are u even moist when u start doing it? your bf is too big? sex is 90% psychology. dont force yourself into it. and if u dont enjoy it, dont do it. wait till u feel horny and then do it. and if it still hurts, and your bf aint no elephant, go ask some doc for advice. cause then its a medical problem.

It is not embarrassing but natural... maybe a bit embarrassing to ask in this forum... I am no expert, but have you seen a gyno? You need to and should ask those questions directly; sorry, can't provide any advice on the pain, however as far as not enjoying it? You are not the only one... sex changes and the way it feels changes as you get older. You were certainly too young when you started (and still very young) but what the heck... the only secret here is not age but knowing what makes you feel good and what gets you 'there'. If you are just going through the motions with your boyfriend and not telling him what you like is not going to make it any better. I don't want to go too far here either, but sounds like he may be too rough as well as not taking time to get you turned on enough to have sex in the first place. Sex should not hurt! You should get some lube as well as part of the pain maybe due to friction... my final thoughts as I write this (and just came to mind), is that if you are not enjoying it you may not even be sexually turned on to have sex. Intercourse is very enjoyable when the sex organs are ready for it; if you get my drift.

Hi, There is no awkward question in Yahoo Answers. I like the fact that you still have the urge to have sex. You need a lot more stimulation.Involve in a lot of foreplay.Ask him to take it slowly. While he is at it,use your finger on your clitoris. its really a leg raiser. You too will reach orgasmic levels.





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