Lord baby jesus. Is this gonna hurt? girls & guys.?!
Question: I was reading a post about hymens and I finally found out what mine is. It is the septate hymen.
http://healthystrokes.com/hymengallery.h...
there are pictures. 2nd to the bottom.
I'm a virgin, and when I have sex will that break? It looks like it will hurt like a mofo. Guys do you think that this kind of hymen is weird?
thank you
Answers: I was reading a post about hymens and I finally found out what mine is. It is the septate hymen.
http://healthystrokes.com/hymengallery.h...
there are pictures. 2nd to the bottom.
I'm a virgin, and when I have sex will that break? It looks like it will hurt like a mofo. Guys do you think that this kind of hymen is weird?
thank you
Go visit your Gyno and they can remove it.
of course it hurts but its not bad u get over it
some people feel pain/comfortability some don't just take it slow your first time..don't stress or tense up. because your body will too and thats when you might feel something
its painful and uncomfortable for sum and it will bleed
best advice would b to take it slow the first time
It will break when you have sex, but it shouldn't hurt anymore than any other hymen.
I'm 18 and still a virgin. I'm not waiting until marriage or until i find the "One" because i don't believe in either. I'm keeping my virginity because it's a wonderful thing and I don't see any reason to lose it... but that's just me. I just prefer to be a role model to others and not give in to society. There's no such thing as re-virginization either. Once you do it, that's it. I'm just giving you my opinion and something to think about. From the picture, it does look like it will hurt but why even lose your virginity in the first place? I would say, keep it and be proud so you don't fill yourself up with insecurities you might have later and regret it.
I personally don't think it's weird, I just think it's biology. And I don't think you'll find a guy who will be able to identify that you have a septate hymen. He probably will not know anything about hymens anyway, and will just assume that's how they always are. I don't think you have anything to worry about in that area. As for the pain if it breaks, I can't help you there. I am a guy with no practical experience with hymens whatsoever.
If you are already using tampons then sex may be uncomfortable at times but it shouldn't be painful. When I lost my virginity it was uncomfortable but I didn't want to die! I think if I had been using Tampons it would have been even easier.
My hymen broke that next day after I had had sex and I went home.. I went to the bathroom and there was blood in the toilet. Lots of bright red blood. I washed myself and that was it. No pain, no drama...nothing. I was surprised that I had not bled the night before and I was even more shocked to see it in the toilet. I never even had the first symptom! Crazy, huh?
If I can get through this pain free--trust me--YOU CAN TOO!!!
Alot of girls can break their hymen just by riding a bike, or a horse, and alot dont feel it :)
Yeah, i can understand why you would be afraid of it hurting but if you dont have a problem with tampons then i wouldnt worry...
Saying this, sex for the first time hurts for alot of girls, so regardless of hymen or not it will probably still be a little painful :( The trick is just to take it slow :)
So to be totally truthful....yeah, it'll probably hurt like a ***** lol, but i know alot of girls who didnt feel ANY pain on their first time, lets hope your one of the lucky ones :)
Good Luck x
I got my gyno to break it for me, it hurt but it wasn't a big deal. Better for my doctor to see my "get that thing the hell out of me" face than my boyfriend.
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