I never bled the first time i had sex and he thought i faked virginity..anyone e!
Question: How and why did he think you faked it? I think the only fake thing he should watch out for is an orgasm! lol
Many people have pain and bleed after sex, particularly 1st time, but not all do. I think it depends how well lubricated you are and if you are relaxed, plus how hard he's going at it.
Some people have a very pleasnt experience. I should slap him if mine ever said that to me! lol
Answers: How and why did he think you faked it? I think the only fake thing he should watch out for is an orgasm! lol
Many people have pain and bleed after sex, particularly 1st time, but not all do. I think it depends how well lubricated you are and if you are relaxed, plus how hard he's going at it.
Some people have a very pleasnt experience. I should slap him if mine ever said that to me! lol
It is quite normal. Not all women are the same.
Girls now days are far more active in sports and that kind of strenuous activity can break the hymen before having sex for the first time. If he couldn't tell by your 'lack of sexual abilities' that you aren't that knowledgeable about sex, then he's got his own problems.
I didn't bleed either, if he thinks your faking, tell him to get lost.
your hymen might of already been broken, there are a few things that can do this apart from sex
horse riding
biker riding
tampons
masturbation
sex toys
and i'm not sure that all girls actually bleed when it breaks
yh its nothing tot worry about the skin which is meant to be broken when you lose your virginity was probably already broken this happens for no particular reason to loads of people dont be worried
I didn't bleed my first time either. In fact, it didn't hurt at all. I guess it's different for each person.
He should believe you, if your having sex he should know you well enough that if you say you are a virgin you are. Not all people are the same. You can break your hymen in lots of ways, not just by sex, it can be done by riding a horse
Not everyone bleeds when they first have sex, the thin line of skin which everyone associates being broken when you lose your viginity can be broken when you play sport or just running! if this guy thinks you lied about something like this i would reconsider if it worthwhile being this intimate with someone like that.
Sorry he said that...what right does he have.
And I'm a guy!!!
ps. just tell him his 'manhood' was too small :)
The others are correct about the possibility of the hymen already being broken. However, if your partner is being mean and cruel about you because of it, you can tell him that his size wasn't big enough to make a difference.
What a loser I didnt bled and I didnt find it all that painful its different for everyone and if he doesnt know that much about womens bodies should he be doing it at all?
The guy sounds like a loser if he thinks u faked! not all woman bleed...i didnt. tell him to get lost
tell him to get lost...cant he trust you? my first gf did not show till 2nd time we did it.
some women don't. I didn't
I DIDNT BLEED EITHER.EVERYBODY IS DIFFERENT.
What does he know about female anatomy!! What a prat.... Of course it doesn't mean you faked it. What did he want you to be bleeding and in pain!?
It all depends on whether your hymen is still intact or not. It can be broken for all manner of reasons, such as having touched yourself down there before, or if you are very active. I guess even if the hymen is still intact it might sometimes been broken without any blood loss or pain.
I didn't bleed when I first had sex because I had already been touched down there before.
i didnt think i bled either, but i found out a few months later that i did when he confessed to me that i had left a bit of blood on the sheet and he had to change them. i thought there would be lots of blood but obviously not, just small drops that are hardly noticeable. ask him to check his sheets.
Nah I didn't bleed either, my husband and I just got married last month and we were both virgins. My hymen had already broken because I was a gymnast and did the splits a lot. (Um the masturbating probably helped too lol)