Iim panicking, no one will answer me!!?!
Question: ***I'm sorry, it's a bit graphic, if you arent good with that please dont read, but I need help :(***
Saturday night I went out and went to the bathroom, and when I peed I kept hearing a noise like something was falling into the toilet.. so i looked down and there were blot clots and the water in the entire bowl was red. (Also, when I wiped it was very blood, like a heavy period) And well, I expected I started my period, and it just happened to be very heavy, so I put in a tampon and went on with the night.
When I got home, I had a hard time getting the tampon out, because it was completely dry. My panties were clean, and my toilet paper looked like nothing had happened down there. But when I peed, my actualy pee was a bit dark, but not red. **Before I went out, I had phonesex with a guy and masturbated with a vibrator/dildo thing*?, could that have brought this on? And all day today It seems as if I never got my period. What is happening to me?! :( :( :( :( :(
Answers: ***I'm sorry, it's a bit graphic, if you arent good with that please dont read, but I need help :(***
Saturday night I went out and went to the bathroom, and when I peed I kept hearing a noise like something was falling into the toilet.. so i looked down and there were blot clots and the water in the entire bowl was red. (Also, when I wiped it was very blood, like a heavy period) And well, I expected I started my period, and it just happened to be very heavy, so I put in a tampon and went on with the night.
When I got home, I had a hard time getting the tampon out, because it was completely dry. My panties were clean, and my toilet paper looked like nothing had happened down there. But when I peed, my actualy pee was a bit dark, but not red. **Before I went out, I had phonesex with a guy and masturbated with a vibrator/dildo thing*?, could that have brought this on? And all day today It seems as if I never got my period. What is happening to me?! :( :( :( :( :(
I'm sorry you're having to deal with this! I can see why this is very scary, but I don't think there's any reason to panic at this point.
I can't say for sure what happened, but I don't think its anything dangerous. My best guess is that the dildo knocked a little bit of the blood lining loose in your uterus, but your body wasn't quite ready for you to start your period yet. You will probably get it in a few days. (I've had something similar happen before.)
The other possibility, especially if the dildo was quite large, was that you tore a bit more of your hymen.
If your urine was dark, I would recommend drinking a lot of water to flush out your system. Sexual activity can lead to bladder infections (one symptom of this is dark, cloudy urine).
Three things you probably don't have to worry about:
1. You probably didn't injure yourself. Vaginas are meant to stretch.
2. You probably aren't pregnant and spotting. I'm not sure if you've had sex or not, but usually spotting is LIGHTER bleeding around the time your period is supposed to start. Of course, if you have had sex in the last month and your period DOESN'T start in a week or two, you should probably think about taking a pregnancy test.
3. You probably don't have an STD. This doesn't really fit STD symptoms that I'm aware of, you can't get STD's from phone sex, and (even if you have had regular sex) this is much better explained by the "knocking things loose" theory.
If your period doesn't start in a week or so, or if you start to experience severe pain, call and make an apointment with your doctor. I don't think that's likely, though. I think you'll be feeling back to normal quite soon. Good luck, and I hope this helps!
P.S. If you have Kaiser health insurance, you can call their advice number and talk to an registered nurse to get a professional opinion. Other insurance carriers may have an advice number to call, too.
Perhaps people are unsure and that is why they're (including me) not answering.
Sometimes though if you masturbate you can bring on your period a tad early, sometimes it comes on for a day or a few hours and then it comes when it's supposed to.
It sounds to me that if your a virgin, youve probably broken your hymen. which is a bit of skin that gets broken when you first have sex, but it can also be triggered by horse riding (believe it or not) dildos etc; sometimes when a hymen is broken it can bleed, (which mine did) it doesnt happen to every girl, but its not uncommon :)
ask a doctor....
Ok, if you had the secks before the blood came, that can happen when you use like vibrators and stuff, and not like the real thing *wink wink*. That could of happend or you did it to hard. If it happend after the whole thing, that can happen with periods sometimes. I didnt read it clear enough so yeah... >.> You should be ok though. ^.^
You seriously need to go to your Ob/Gyn! This could be really serious! Blood clots aren't things to be taken lightly! You could possibly get an infection.