Help Me Please!?!?!?!
Question: I'm a 20 year old female college student, who has a myriad of problems. I was brutally sexually abused as a young child, raped during high school, and have a "wonderful" addiction to harming myself. I do believe the addiction is due to my past; but I've been in counselling since I started high school (before the rape) and I haven't noticed much difference other than I no longer have suicide attempts. I want to begin to feel better about myself; and potentially find someone else in whom I can confide; someone who is there to listen to me from time to time but in an non-therapist way. I just really don't know what to do anymore; but I want to start feeling better; and I want to feel better about myself. I hate myself for the pain I've allowed myself to be caused and I cannot handle this pain anymore... What do I do!? Any suggestions on things I can do to help, or people I could possible talk to?
Answers: I'm a 20 year old female college student, who has a myriad of problems. I was brutally sexually abused as a young child, raped during high school, and have a "wonderful" addiction to harming myself. I do believe the addiction is due to my past; but I've been in counselling since I started high school (before the rape) and I haven't noticed much difference other than I no longer have suicide attempts. I want to begin to feel better about myself; and potentially find someone else in whom I can confide; someone who is there to listen to me from time to time but in an non-therapist way. I just really don't know what to do anymore; but I want to start feeling better; and I want to feel better about myself. I hate myself for the pain I've allowed myself to be caused and I cannot handle this pain anymore... What do I do!? Any suggestions on things I can do to help, or people I could possible talk to?
I know what it's like to feel all alone and
No one understands you even your best friends.
There is stuff I never bring up bc most people would never understand. I know what it's like not to want sympathy and just wish for someone to vent to.
send me an email if you want to talk
Ask your therapist to give you a list of support groups for teens who have been sexually abused so you have someone to talk to who has been through the same thing..hang in there.
You can always talk to your friends, you can talk to your parents if you are on the person-to-person bases. Or You can always talk to me, Ive gone through what you have, even though I'm a little younger, I dont like therapists..makes mee feel belittled.. But again talk to me, Ill be your friend, and help you like I have others :)
send me an e-mail.
skullo_freak@yahoo.com
Sweetie, I am willing to email with you or IM you.
I have been threw many of the things you have and I am also loking for someone who can help me on days where a theraist just doesnt help... you can email me
wildcattennis08@aol.com
i found that my school counslor helped a lot. she talked to me, listened to me but not like a therapist. she was also helpful in finding support groups, and helping me relize that things were not my fault. i really hope that this helped a little. please be strong & try to remember that even though you have been hurt, not everyone is same. GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!
Hi there i cant go in to my past, as it hurts to much, but if you ever need any one to talk to
my personal e-mail is kevinmcintosh@btinternet.com
if you would prefer you can talk to my wife you must never feel that you are alone, It is hard for people to understand how you feel unless they have been through it themselves I am a spiritualist and i know that every thing will turn out OK for you Try going to your local spiritualist church
and stay back for spiritual healing it helps. Love kev+babs