1st time with a virgin?!
Question: i am 26 and my girlis 23, she is a virgin, i never been witha virgin before, sex is the problem, i cant get it in, she always says it hurts, how can we pop her cherry
Answers: i am 26 and my girlis 23, she is a virgin, i never been witha virgin before, sex is the problem, i cant get it in, she always says it hurts, how can we pop her cherry
lube and finger her till she is open wide, make sure she is not tensed but relaxed
try a lubricant like KY jelly and plenty of [no polite way to put this]finger work try to open her up before penetration and then you should achieve what you both want ,but try to make it memorable for her first time
Ask her to see her Doctor. There are some (very rare) medical conditions where a woman can have a missing or very short vagina. On the bright side, she is probably just very nervous. Take it slower and be very gentle and use lots of fore play and lubrication. Some women have vaginas that bend backwards as well, so try different approaches too.
Use lube. Go slow. Give her an orgasm before you try to "pop her cherry".
Loosen her up first with your fingers and tongue.
You could try using Anal Ease, this will numb her (and you) but it could help the pain.
It is going to hurt though and if she tenses up waiting for it it will hurt more.
Most people will disagree with this but if she drinks alcohol then get a few drinks in her to help her relax which will allow you to get it in easier.
Sounds like shes a bit tense ... foreplay and plenty of it is a good way to losen up (in every sense) .... KY jelly or such like will help too. Different positions too, her on top is a good way for a girls 1st time, she can control depth and speed that way. Good Luck ....
Get her nice and worked up. Foreplay is your friend!
If she is wet and turned on, you should have no problems.
As an above poster pointed out lots of finger work.
A lubricant like KY is brilliant.
Firstly, you can start with oral sex to get her sexually excited. Try fingering her as this may help the vagina become moist. Then, use a lot of lubricant on your penis and inside her vagina so that the penis can enter more easily. You should try putting it in slowly, it will hurt her but keep going until its broken.
Beforehand, maybe she should regualey finger herself because this may break her hymen(this is the bit which is stopping you from having sex as it is covering the vagina-you need to break it). If nothing works, ask your/her doctor or ask for advice at a family planning clinic. Good luck =) x
go to department store they sell cherry poppers there....just ask the person behind the counter for one
im sorry did you say we, yeah just tell me where she lives and ill meet you there
i have an idea KEEP HER A VIRGIN sex isnt always the answer and plus you will bring urself to ur spouse wen u get married unpure and that has to be the worst thing ever