Help about my friend? [not a kid question]?!


Question: Heyyy-

My friend, "Mary" has been messing around with her ex-boyfriend, "Fred". Fred was hugging her, and fingered her with two of his fingers. Ordinarly, this wouldn't be a big deal, but he has HUGE fingers, and he used two fingers. She started bleeding; he ripped her hymen. Does that still make her a virgin, or not? They haven't had standard intercourse though. She is freaking out so HELP?! BTW, she is only 13.


Answers: Heyyy-

My friend, "Mary" has been messing around with her ex-boyfriend, "Fred". Fred was hugging her, and fingered her with two of his fingers. Ordinarly, this wouldn't be a big deal, but he has HUGE fingers, and he used two fingers. She started bleeding; he ripped her hymen. Does that still make her a virgin, or not? They haven't had standard intercourse though. She is freaking out so HELP?! BTW, she is only 13.

She is still a virgin...people get their hymens broken all the time for variety of reasons. People in sports often break their hymens through activity.

Even though your freind is still a virgin, she should really not being doing that sort of thing, she is way to you. She sounds like she should talk to someone who she trust that is an adult.

erm well shes needs 2 go 2 the doctors and she is still a virgin coz it ain't like proper sex so ya.

She is still a virgin.
A penis must enter your body for your virginity to be gone. (Vaginal or Anal)

She hasnt has sexual intercoarse yet that is way diffrent. Just tell her that she shouldnt be doing that at her age and she should tell her boyfriend to use 1 finger or smaller fingers (if she disagrees with stoping)

she is still a virgin

Even though her hymen broke, she is still a virgin, as long as she hasn't had sexual intercourse. The first time a penis enters your vagina is when you lose your virginity, not when your hymen breaks. Lots of girl's hymens break in sports, while inserting tampons, and sometimes masturbating. Other girls have it break when they have sex for the first time. Hope this helps. By the way, my best friend had the same issue too at the same age. I know it was their choice, but you they are too young to be doing those types of thing.





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