Uncomfortable in a bikini?!
Question: ok so i'm 14 i have never worn a bikini becaus ei feel uncomfortable in one. i'm short, about 4'10 or 4'11 and i'm kinda overweight i think, i'm 104 lbs. i have a flabby stomach i personally think it looks like i'm slightly pregnant when i just look at my stomach. i don't look fat when i am wearing clothes because i guess i wear big clothes and i tend to suck in when i'm around people when i have tighter clothes on which still looks weird cuz then my ribs stick out and you can still see how fat i am. so i want to wear a bikini but i really wouldn't feel comfortable because i'm so fat. i also have absolutely no boobs which makes me looks worse. any advice about what to do? Also what can i do to lose some fat/weight? because i do eat kinda a lot of junk food but i also am very active, i play soccer and softball and i go on walks and bike rides all the time. its not fair my older brother is super skinny and tall and he eats 5 times as much as me and plays no sports. any advice? Thank you!
Answers: ok so i'm 14 i have never worn a bikini becaus ei feel uncomfortable in one. i'm short, about 4'10 or 4'11 and i'm kinda overweight i think, i'm 104 lbs. i have a flabby stomach i personally think it looks like i'm slightly pregnant when i just look at my stomach. i don't look fat when i am wearing clothes because i guess i wear big clothes and i tend to suck in when i'm around people when i have tighter clothes on which still looks weird cuz then my ribs stick out and you can still see how fat i am. so i want to wear a bikini but i really wouldn't feel comfortable because i'm so fat. i also have absolutely no boobs which makes me looks worse. any advice about what to do? Also what can i do to lose some fat/weight? because i do eat kinda a lot of junk food but i also am very active, i play soccer and softball and i go on walks and bike rides all the time. its not fair my older brother is super skinny and tall and he eats 5 times as much as me and plays no sports. any advice? Thank you!
you are not fat!!! if you weigh 104 lbs you are just fine. and if you do not feel comfortable in a bikini, you shouldnt wear one because you wil be concerned with how you look, instead of having fun. you can get one of those one pieces that look like a two piece. its basically a two piece but there is a part that covers just the front of your mid section. they are so cute.. However, somrtimes you just have to be comfortable in your own skin and love the way you are. i know its hard because i have a problem with it sometimes. My advice is to get a realy cute tankini that doesnt reveal as much or get one of those one pieces i was talking about. The best bet is to wear a bikini and love it!!!!!!!!!! if you let Yorself have fun, you will forget about it
104lbs for 4'11 isn't overweight
I have a friend thats 4'11 and 104lbs
shes tiny! and she thinks shes fat
she wears baggy clothes and everyone
tells her shes tiny but she always says
shes fat but I dont think you need to loose
any weight because you're the perfect
weight for you're height. any skinnier you
would be underweight
Maybe if you feel uncomfortable, you could do some toning up instead of losing weight. Also have you thought of wearing a tankini?
Dude your 14 years old. No need to worry about your weight. I'm 25 and i still feel uncomfortable that just the way i am, but i still wear it. I have the body for it, so will you the more you develop. I'm short as well 5'2 and weigh 114. You can wear a bikini but i think your too young. I like to wear small boy shorts, those are cute if u have a nice bottom. Since i have a big chest as well (34D) i wear a bikini top. Explore with different styles and see which one fits you best for your body frame. If you really want to be out there and daring... try a g-sting bikini and nipple stickers. ;) J/k