Woman: How do you....?!
Question: get yourself use to anal sex.... My bf always want to do it... but i cant bear it...even when he is going really slow and gently i just cant take it... how do i get use to it...or make myself enjoy it...?
Answers: get yourself use to anal sex.... My bf always want to do it... but i cant bear it...even when he is going really slow and gently i just cant take it... how do i get use to it...or make myself enjoy it...?
If you don't enjoy it, then you don't enjoy it. It's that simple. Some people never enjoy it.
There's nothing you need to do to make yourself enjoy it and if you don't want to have anal sex: then don't.
Do not, as someone else suggested, use any kind of numbing lubrication. Pain is a warning sign that tells you something is *wrong*; you don't want to numb yourself to those warning signs.
And don't drink as someone else suggested. At least, not to the point of drunkenness. A glass of wine or something may be fine for relaxation purposes.
If *you* are actually interested in making anal sex more pleasurable for yourself (and not just interested because of your boyfriend) head over to amazon.com and search through their books on health and sexuality. You'll find a decent amount of information.
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Once you do it a lot of times you will come to enjoy it. it gets better each time to do...
Hope i help
I had this problem too. Go to Pureromance.com. They have a product called "Booty Eaze" not sure on the spelling. It has benzocaine in it. It will help numb the pain. Its a little expensive but trust me its well worth the money. And if you dont want to pay the money...just make your boyfriend...Its worth it.
lol i'm the same as you, i tried it once and couldn't get used to it, it hurt then felt weird and then didn't feel comfortable!
I really don't know how you can get used to it, i suppose some girls aint supposed to.
Un fortunatly it is one of those things you have to do more to get used to! ehhh
Try drinkin!
uh, dont.
thats awful.